What do you do when you love someone so much that despite having your heart broken in the past and being jaded, they've made you feel like NOW you are really truely in love for the first time in your life and everything is going to work out like a fucking storybook happy ending and so far things have been going in that direction... but suddenly you find that you are making each other miserable and the pain and frustration from fighting everytime you see each other, every time you speak on the phone, is so horrible and so constant that you wish you could tear our your heart and squeeze it with your own hands until it stops beating because you feel like you are going crazy and if it doesn't stop hurting soon you are going to die.
What the fuck do you do?
What the fuck do you do?
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vermicious:
you take a break from eachother... i'm not talking about calling off the relationship, but just get a little space. you can kill the best relationship with too much attention. people are people and they get on eachothers nerves, relax, make a sandwich, read a book, skip a couple of phone calls and nights together.
rabidpanda:
might not be for you, but in my experiences, I'd rather end it before it kills itself. keep from mucking up the memories and the goodness of what you had. Then again, it's easier said than done. There's also something to be said that love and relationships are not easy. Meaning if you feel like you can/want to go through this shit together and try and work it out, it might just end up even stronger and more beautiful in the end. Fuck, if it was easy to be with the one you want to be, life would be a little too easy. Less painful, but too easy. maybe the time apart thing as suggested by vermicious is a good idea.