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So lately I have been equating relationships to a ship and it goes a little like this. So when you get into a committed relationship with someone you are in away creating a vesicle that is going to set sail on the ocean of life. You together go through the ups and downs, twist and turns, while maintaining the ship together and it's great. You are embarking on a journey of the souls. Then there are some breaks in the hull and it leaks you bail the water as it comes in together, as a team. The captain his first mate; the captain and her first mate, there will always be strife as its two humans interacting and working. Some times it's like glass and others you just want to mutiny but you stick to it, this great ship is on the most magical journey; love. Then let's say you break up while you are bailing these life buckets of water together. To me as a captain and to you as a captain your first mate left and now it's just you; like it was in the beginning scooting along the ocean of life. I can't seem to let that crew member back in, I can forgive them and accept them for leaving but I never let them back on to man the helm or help me scrap the barnacles. I can't trust that when the waves get bigger some where along the journey they won't leave me even faster. So I wave as I pass them on their little boat and wish them the best of luck and I never load the cannons of hate or make anyone walk the plank. My friend reminded me of the Binaire Etoile factor"and it's not like we can't get anywhere without the first mate, but we can't get as far, nor can we get to places as rewarding and beautiful you know?"

A binary star is a stellar system consisting of two stars orbiting around their center of mass. For each star, the other is its companion star . The components of binary star systems can exchange mass, bringing their evolution to stages that single stars cannot attain.