So I was just sitting back here and cruising the net and got an IM discussion dropped in my lap... I am not really sure what to say about this one... I guess there are just times when I am completely speechless about the decisions made around me...
I am reminded of a quote used once to describe the new mother in question... "Some people just are destined to live in trailor parks."
No I didn't make this up... these things really do happen.
Yeah I really did change the names to letter for this... what can I say I know they have friends that can find this... T is the guy... and D is the chick in question.
I should say that D is really a nice girl... and T really is a pedophile that just married the (little) girl of his affections.
Pantherbot23 [12:57 AM]: bin busy with T and D having there baby last week and working on my car and doing the things I need to so I can go to college this fall and everything
Pantherbot23 [12:57 AM]: bin vary busy
Abgitatz [12:58 AM]: did you just say that T has bred?
Pantherbot23 [12:58 AM]: ya
Abgitatz [12:58 AM]: are you joking?
Abgitatz [12:59 AM]: ::lights a cig::
Pantherbot23 [12:59 AM]: baby girl 8lbs 13oz 21 inches long name Chyanna lily daves
Abgitatz [12:59 AM]: how old is T again?
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: I know I spelled her first name wrong
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: 30
Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: how old is she again?
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: D will be 19 the 29th
Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: are they engaged yet?
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: there married
Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: ... when did that happen?
Pantherbot23 [1:01 AM]: about a month ago
Abgitatz [1:01 AM]: shot gun wedding?
Pantherbot23 [1:01 AM]: na they didn't even tell his family or hers and they did it
Abgitatz [1:02 AM]: you sure you are still not joking?
Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: he basicly said fuck you I don't care if you want to be there... I want to make sure no one abjects
Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: nope
Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: D is one of my best friends... I wouldn't joke about that
Abgitatz [1:04 AM]: i am having one of those pahlaniuk moments of clarity
Pantherbot23 [1:04 AM]: you ok?
Abgitatz [1:04 AM]: yep
Pantherbot23 [1:04 AM]: ok
Abgitatz [1:05 AM]: so where are they living?
Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: I am just
wanting to see how long it will last and if to will do what I think he will and has shown me a perpencity to do
Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: his moms house
Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: untill his dad buys them a house
Abgitatz [1:06 AM]: gotcha
Pantherbot23 [1:06 AM]: or untill D ends up getting like 3 jobs and suports them both till she gets pregnant again
Abgitatz [1:07 AM]: he still can't work?
Pantherbot23 [1:07 AM]: well...
Abgitatz [1:08 AM]: well?
Pantherbot23 [1:08 AM]: thats something I wont get into cuz I haven't got into it with him about that yet
Pantherbot23 [1:09 AM]: lets just say I have told him where to get the jobs he can work and everything and he still doesn't have one
Abgitatz [1:09 AM]: ok, that is a no... he isn't working... let me guess though... he doesn't want a job... right?
Pantherbot23 [1:10 AM]: like I said he is not working even when I told him where to find a job
Pantherbot23 [1:11 AM]: his dad even said go looking for a house and he hasn't... It's like he wants to live with his mom
Abgitatz [1:11 AM]: she helping with the kid yet?
Pantherbot23 [1:11 AM]: only time he has looked at houses is when D finally made him and the times his dad was up from his work in the behammas
Pantherbot23 [1:12 AM]: who his mom or D?
Abgitatz [1:12 AM]: his mom
Pantherbot23 [1:13 AM]: well she will randomly buy then stuff for the baby but T is a lazy bitch and D has to keep the has sergical clean and she had an emergaqncy C section on the 19th and is still healing
Pantherbot23 [1:13 AM]: so his mom crazy
Pantherbot23 [1:14 AM]: the bitch is as crazy as alex... only dif is she can function in the real world
Abgitatz [1:14 AM]: so, i have to ask... can they really afford this kid?
Pantherbot23 [1:15 AM]: prob not but who knows
Abgitatz [1:15 AM]: arg
Pantherbot23 [1:15 AM]: right now everyone is buying things for them
Abgitatz [1:15 AM]: gotcha
Abgitatz [1:16 AM]: remind me to slap him upside the head next time i see him
Pantherbot23 [1:16 AM]: ok
Abgitatz [1:17 AM]: god that is depressing... and just when most people i know are getting their respective lives online to... and this is the chick that he got a felony over also
Pantherbot23 [1:18 AM]: well you want to know the truth of why I think he did it?
Abgitatz [1:18 AM]: sure
Pantherbot23 [1:19 AM]: he did it cuz he can go to the state and have all the shit thown out and his record whiped clean if he married he
Pantherbot23 [1:20 AM]: he got that from his lawer
Pantherbot23 [1:20 AM]: god I hate not knowing how to spell serten words
Abgitatz [1:20 AM]: good god... crafty... but i am not feeling the whole having a kid thing... hell she was what 14 when they started dating?
Abgitatz [1:21 AM]: its cool
Pantherbot23 [1:21 AM]: ya and got preg once then
Abgitatz [1:21 AM]: kids having kids
Pantherbot23 [1:21 AM]: she wants to be a mom and she wants some one to take care of her
Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: and T isn't going to do anything but get her preg..
Abgitatz [1:22 AM]: she isn't old enough to understand what she is doing
Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: and when they break up he is going to leave her with nothing
Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: ya well now she is growning up fast
Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: she has been sence she got preg
Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: thats all right T thought the baby was mine
Abgitatz [1:23 AM]: what?
Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: he still thinks I was fucking her
Abgitatz [1:24 AM]: i have no responce to that
Abgitatz [1:24 AM]: well... other then that he is using her
Pantherbot23 [1:25 AM]: she was living with me for a while to get her out of another abusive house after she left state custidy she moved in with a friends she went to school with and her mom started abusing D.. so I got her out of there and she moved in with me and while she lived her T thought we were fucking
Abgitatz [1:26 AM]: well to be fair she was sleeping in your bed dude
Pantherbot23 [1:26 AM]: dude I never had any sexual thing happin between us
Abgitatz [1:27 AM]: not saying i think anything did happen
Pantherbot23 [1:27 AM]: the closest thing to anyhing like that is we cuddled a couple of times and that was just for cumfort
Abgitatz [1:27 AM]: god this is depressing... what the hell are they thinking?
Abgitatz [1:28 AM]: ok... well i guess he is thinking he can use her back after she used him when she was younger... but what is she thinking?
Pantherbot23 [1:28 AM]: well T is thinking of paying her back trust me on that one
Abgitatz [1:28 AM]: exactly
Pantherbot23 [1:29 AM]: she really
does care for him... she just made a mistake when she was younger
Pantherbot23 [1:29 AM]: and then the person that she lived with fucked things up even more
Abgitatz [1:29 AM]: mistake in basicly blackmailing him into being in a relationship with her... and then going to the police to get him in further trouble?
Pantherbot23 [1:30 AM]: no you got your facts wrong
Abgitatz [1:30 AM]: ok, straighten me out
Pantherbot23 [1:34 AM]: she went after him but there was no black mail, when she was living with anthony's mom she didn't think email him using an email account other then Compuserve and what she didn't know about the cs account she had was anthony's mom had her completly snooped out so when she had a sepition of being preg the first time and emailed tom to tell him she didn't know that the email she sent also went to anthony's mom and then anthony's mom pressed the charges to scare T and what she didn't know was that
Pantherbot23 [1:35 AM]: the state would continue with the carges and she couldn't make them stop pressing the carges cuz she was in the custidy of the state
Abgitatz [1:36 AM]: and this is after T went to jail over her?
Pantherbot23 [1:36 AM]: I love D with all my heat but she is vary week willed when people start pressing her and she thinks there is nothing she can do
Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: that is why T went to jail
Abgitatz [1:37 AM]: how old was she again?
Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: they took that evidents and then pushed her to say he was having sex with her
Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: 14
Abgitatz [1:37 AM]: well he was having sex with her
Abgitatz [1:38 AM]: she isn't the virgin mother after all
Pantherbot23 [1:38 AM]: he did the dead knowing the consiquences and they got cought
Abgitatz [1:38 AM]: ummm yeah they did
Abgitatz [1:39 AM]: this entire conversation makes me want to go celebate
Pantherbot23 [1:39 AM]: actualy I found out later she had bin abused from like the age of 7 or 8 in a mental physical and sexual way
Abgitatz [1:40 AM]: dude her older sister threw a party when she got her dream job of being a register girl at food lion... thats all i really needed to know about how messed up her family was
Pantherbot23 [1:40 AM]: ya well
Pantherbot23 [1:41 AM]: D is trying to make her self better then that
Pantherbot23 [1:41 AM]: she did graduate and even being like almost 8 months preg
Abgitatz [1:41 AM]: yeah i know, trust me i am hoping she does... hell i am having trouble seeing how she could aim lower.
Abgitatz [1:42 AM]: she going to apply for college?
Pantherbot23 [1:44 AM]: she wants to but I don't know whats going on with that... she wants to be a masuse
Abgitatz [1:45 AM]: well then she should apply at Deltech
Pantherbot23 [1:45 AM]: she isn't a DE resident anymore
Abgitatz [1:46 AM]: MD?
Pantherbot23 [1:46 AM]: yup
Pantherbot23 [1:47 AM]: brb got to have a smoke
Abgitatz [1:47 AM]: ok
And what have we learned from this kids? That drama is funny beyond words if you are not involved. Plus it can even be entertaining... who needs TV... we have the human race dancing like monkeys!
Quote of the day. "Most people are only good for producing children that will one day ask my kid do you want fries with that."
And now because I have to ask... any comments?
11:51 AM: And now I get two interesting things for a wake this thsi morning. A new set from Apnea. Who I think rocks
And I also get an e-mail from an ex saying she is moving far far away soon. Life is good. I have a feeling class will be cancelled today, and I will end up at Brewhaha drinking chi and reading a good book. Gotta love summer.
2:53 PM: just got an interesting quote from an e-mail. "No one will believe you solved this problem in one day - we've been working on it for months. Go act busy for a few weeks and I'll let you know when it's time to tell them."
I am reminded of a quote used once to describe the new mother in question... "Some people just are destined to live in trailor parks."
No I didn't make this up... these things really do happen.
Yeah I really did change the names to letter for this... what can I say I know they have friends that can find this... T is the guy... and D is the chick in question.
I should say that D is really a nice girl... and T really is a pedophile that just married the (little) girl of his affections.
Pantherbot23 [12:57 AM]: bin busy with T and D having there baby last week and working on my car and doing the things I need to so I can go to college this fall and everything
Pantherbot23 [12:57 AM]: bin vary busy
Abgitatz [12:58 AM]: did you just say that T has bred?
Pantherbot23 [12:58 AM]: ya
Abgitatz [12:58 AM]: are you joking?
Abgitatz [12:59 AM]: ::lights a cig::
Pantherbot23 [12:59 AM]: baby girl 8lbs 13oz 21 inches long name Chyanna lily daves
Abgitatz [12:59 AM]: how old is T again?
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: I know I spelled her first name wrong
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: 30
Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: how old is she again?
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: D will be 19 the 29th
Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: are they engaged yet?
Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: there married
Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: ... when did that happen?
Pantherbot23 [1:01 AM]: about a month ago
Abgitatz [1:01 AM]: shot gun wedding?
Pantherbot23 [1:01 AM]: na they didn't even tell his family or hers and they did it
Abgitatz [1:02 AM]: you sure you are still not joking?
Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: he basicly said fuck you I don't care if you want to be there... I want to make sure no one abjects
Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: nope
Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: D is one of my best friends... I wouldn't joke about that
Abgitatz [1:04 AM]: i am having one of those pahlaniuk moments of clarity
Pantherbot23 [1:04 AM]: you ok?
Abgitatz [1:04 AM]: yep
Pantherbot23 [1:04 AM]: ok
Abgitatz [1:05 AM]: so where are they living?
Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: I am just
wanting to see how long it will last and if to will do what I think he will and has shown me a perpencity to do
Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: his moms house
Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: untill his dad buys them a house
Abgitatz [1:06 AM]: gotcha
Pantherbot23 [1:06 AM]: or untill D ends up getting like 3 jobs and suports them both till she gets pregnant again
Abgitatz [1:07 AM]: he still can't work?
Pantherbot23 [1:07 AM]: well...
Abgitatz [1:08 AM]: well?
Pantherbot23 [1:08 AM]: thats something I wont get into cuz I haven't got into it with him about that yet
Pantherbot23 [1:09 AM]: lets just say I have told him where to get the jobs he can work and everything and he still doesn't have one
Abgitatz [1:09 AM]: ok, that is a no... he isn't working... let me guess though... he doesn't want a job... right?
Pantherbot23 [1:10 AM]: like I said he is not working even when I told him where to find a job
Pantherbot23 [1:11 AM]: his dad even said go looking for a house and he hasn't... It's like he wants to live with his mom
Abgitatz [1:11 AM]: she helping with the kid yet?
Pantherbot23 [1:11 AM]: only time he has looked at houses is when D finally made him and the times his dad was up from his work in the behammas
Pantherbot23 [1:12 AM]: who his mom or D?
Abgitatz [1:12 AM]: his mom
Pantherbot23 [1:13 AM]: well she will randomly buy then stuff for the baby but T is a lazy bitch and D has to keep the has sergical clean and she had an emergaqncy C section on the 19th and is still healing
Pantherbot23 [1:13 AM]: so his mom crazy
Pantherbot23 [1:14 AM]: the bitch is as crazy as alex... only dif is she can function in the real world
Abgitatz [1:14 AM]: so, i have to ask... can they really afford this kid?
Pantherbot23 [1:15 AM]: prob not but who knows
Abgitatz [1:15 AM]: arg
Pantherbot23 [1:15 AM]: right now everyone is buying things for them
Abgitatz [1:15 AM]: gotcha
Abgitatz [1:16 AM]: remind me to slap him upside the head next time i see him
Pantherbot23 [1:16 AM]: ok
Abgitatz [1:17 AM]: god that is depressing... and just when most people i know are getting their respective lives online to... and this is the chick that he got a felony over also
Pantherbot23 [1:18 AM]: well you want to know the truth of why I think he did it?
Abgitatz [1:18 AM]: sure
Pantherbot23 [1:19 AM]: he did it cuz he can go to the state and have all the shit thown out and his record whiped clean if he married he
Pantherbot23 [1:20 AM]: he got that from his lawer
Pantherbot23 [1:20 AM]: god I hate not knowing how to spell serten words
Abgitatz [1:20 AM]: good god... crafty... but i am not feeling the whole having a kid thing... hell she was what 14 when they started dating?
Abgitatz [1:21 AM]: its cool
Pantherbot23 [1:21 AM]: ya and got preg once then
Abgitatz [1:21 AM]: kids having kids
Pantherbot23 [1:21 AM]: she wants to be a mom and she wants some one to take care of her
Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: and T isn't going to do anything but get her preg..
Abgitatz [1:22 AM]: she isn't old enough to understand what she is doing
Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: and when they break up he is going to leave her with nothing
Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: ya well now she is growning up fast
Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: she has been sence she got preg
Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: thats all right T thought the baby was mine
Abgitatz [1:23 AM]: what?
Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: he still thinks I was fucking her
Abgitatz [1:24 AM]: i have no responce to that
Abgitatz [1:24 AM]: well... other then that he is using her
Pantherbot23 [1:25 AM]: she was living with me for a while to get her out of another abusive house after she left state custidy she moved in with a friends she went to school with and her mom started abusing D.. so I got her out of there and she moved in with me and while she lived her T thought we were fucking
Abgitatz [1:26 AM]: well to be fair she was sleeping in your bed dude
Pantherbot23 [1:26 AM]: dude I never had any sexual thing happin between us
Abgitatz [1:27 AM]: not saying i think anything did happen
Pantherbot23 [1:27 AM]: the closest thing to anyhing like that is we cuddled a couple of times and that was just for cumfort
Abgitatz [1:27 AM]: god this is depressing... what the hell are they thinking?
Abgitatz [1:28 AM]: ok... well i guess he is thinking he can use her back after she used him when she was younger... but what is she thinking?
Pantherbot23 [1:28 AM]: well T is thinking of paying her back trust me on that one
Abgitatz [1:28 AM]: exactly
Pantherbot23 [1:29 AM]: she really
does care for him... she just made a mistake when she was younger
Pantherbot23 [1:29 AM]: and then the person that she lived with fucked things up even more
Abgitatz [1:29 AM]: mistake in basicly blackmailing him into being in a relationship with her... and then going to the police to get him in further trouble?
Pantherbot23 [1:30 AM]: no you got your facts wrong
Abgitatz [1:30 AM]: ok, straighten me out
Pantherbot23 [1:34 AM]: she went after him but there was no black mail, when she was living with anthony's mom she didn't think email him using an email account other then Compuserve and what she didn't know about the cs account she had was anthony's mom had her completly snooped out so when she had a sepition of being preg the first time and emailed tom to tell him she didn't know that the email she sent also went to anthony's mom and then anthony's mom pressed the charges to scare T and what she didn't know was that
Pantherbot23 [1:35 AM]: the state would continue with the carges and she couldn't make them stop pressing the carges cuz she was in the custidy of the state
Abgitatz [1:36 AM]: and this is after T went to jail over her?
Pantherbot23 [1:36 AM]: I love D with all my heat but she is vary week willed when people start pressing her and she thinks there is nothing she can do
Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: that is why T went to jail
Abgitatz [1:37 AM]: how old was she again?
Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: they took that evidents and then pushed her to say he was having sex with her
Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: 14
Abgitatz [1:37 AM]: well he was having sex with her
Abgitatz [1:38 AM]: she isn't the virgin mother after all
Pantherbot23 [1:38 AM]: he did the dead knowing the consiquences and they got cought
Abgitatz [1:38 AM]: ummm yeah they did
Abgitatz [1:39 AM]: this entire conversation makes me want to go celebate
Pantherbot23 [1:39 AM]: actualy I found out later she had bin abused from like the age of 7 or 8 in a mental physical and sexual way
Abgitatz [1:40 AM]: dude her older sister threw a party when she got her dream job of being a register girl at food lion... thats all i really needed to know about how messed up her family was
Pantherbot23 [1:40 AM]: ya well
Pantherbot23 [1:41 AM]: D is trying to make her self better then that
Pantherbot23 [1:41 AM]: she did graduate and even being like almost 8 months preg
Abgitatz [1:41 AM]: yeah i know, trust me i am hoping she does... hell i am having trouble seeing how she could aim lower.
Abgitatz [1:42 AM]: she going to apply for college?
Pantherbot23 [1:44 AM]: she wants to but I don't know whats going on with that... she wants to be a masuse
Abgitatz [1:45 AM]: well then she should apply at Deltech
Pantherbot23 [1:45 AM]: she isn't a DE resident anymore
Abgitatz [1:46 AM]: MD?
Pantherbot23 [1:46 AM]: yup
Pantherbot23 [1:47 AM]: brb got to have a smoke
Abgitatz [1:47 AM]: ok
And what have we learned from this kids? That drama is funny beyond words if you are not involved. Plus it can even be entertaining... who needs TV... we have the human race dancing like monkeys!
Quote of the day. "Most people are only good for producing children that will one day ask my kid do you want fries with that."
And now because I have to ask... any comments?
11:51 AM: And now I get two interesting things for a wake this thsi morning. A new set from Apnea. Who I think rocks
And I also get an e-mail from an ex saying she is moving far far away soon. Life is good. I have a feeling class will be cancelled today, and I will end up at Brewhaha drinking chi and reading a good book. Gotta love summer.
2:53 PM: just got an interesting quote from an e-mail. "No one will believe you solved this problem in one day - we've been working on it for months. Go act busy for a few weeks and I'll let you know when it's time to tell them."
People are strange! I almost got ran off the road by a guy cause i didn't move out of a lane when he flashed his lights! It was raining and he was speeding! Then he wants to think he was scaring me but I'm crazy! If I had a gun at that moment I would have blown his tires out!