mother bitcher! just got into a car accident. everyone is ok, but my car is pretty dinged up. it was totally my fault. i thought the guy in front of me was turning, but he stopped short. i did not stop short. we didn't exchange info, and he said he wouldnt file a report (his big ass truck was fine) but i filed one anyway...
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heathen:
Glad everyone is ok. Sorry to hear you had to go through that. Good move on filing for yourself, you never know what a complete stranger will decide to do.
how do you convince someone not to get married?
i just spent the past few hours with an old friend of mine who i havent seen in more than a year. he has a kid now (which he refers to as "the kid") who is 8 months old. he did not want the baby, and neither did his (now) fiance. they had agreed that she...
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i just spent the past few hours with an old friend of mine who i havent seen in more than a year. he has a kid now (which he refers to as "the kid") who is 8 months old. he did not want the baby, and neither did his (now) fiance. they had agreed that she...
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heathen:
If neither one of them want kids at the moment, wouldn't adoption be an option? I imagine it's pretty difficult to raise a child when it isn't the parents don't feel it's the right time. Then again, I'm not sure if anyone's ever really "ready" for it.
Getting married for the wrong reasons can lead to some pretty shitty consequences. My thoughts are with your friend, I hope they get things settled.
Getting married for the wrong reasons can lead to some pretty shitty consequences. My thoughts are with your friend, I hope they get things settled.
abadseed:
i know personally that getting married for the wrong reasons doesn't end well. i'm divorced! granted, she cheated on me, but...ya know.
after they had/her parents had made them decide to keep the baby, neither of them would have been able to give it up for adoption. i think things with the baby will be ok, as long as they don't get married, as awful as that sounds.
after they had/her parents had made them decide to keep the baby, neither of them would have been able to give it up for adoption. i think things with the baby will be ok, as long as they don't get married, as awful as that sounds.
a good start to the day. breakfast with radiohead and my sister. off to work for a couple of hours, taking sister to a graduation party, gym for myself. then try to get some school work done for this subject area literacy class. this will be done outside.
not feeling like this long distance deal is going to work out...or maybe i'm a dick? i can't decide. she has 3 weeks off this summer, and is taking 10 days to try to come to columbus (where i am and she has lots of friends) cincinnati (where she has family) detroit (where her parents live) and chicagot (where her best friend lives). i understand...
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heathen:
long distance is extremely difficult to do 
I never get tired of being the cool older brother. I have a sister that is 10 years younger than me, and its really fun to be able to hang out with her and warp her mind (in the positive sense)! I don't do dumb shit like buy her drugs, alcohol, weed, or cigarettes, but it is cool to introduce her to stuff I like...
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i found out yesterday that i will have to be in school for another year. super lame! i dont have to take more classes, it is just a matter of when the classes i need will be offered. pretty annoying. BUT, its ok. i can take my time and really learn stuff, i suppose. i'm thinking of teaching overseas for a while. a girl i...
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I am really getting fed up with my gf. I can't take the negativity anymore. Every day there is something new wrong, there is some new fucking thing that I have to console her about and tell her that everything is going to be ok. How do you do that from 700 miles away? I moved away so that I could go back to school...
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midi:
You should tell her all of this, maybe say in a nicer way so she doesn't get defensive?
abadseed:
kinda hard for her to not get defensive. but, i did talk to her. not sure what the outcome will be...
Finally back online! Got a new laptop, so that is helpful. Back in school, and that sucks. Living with my parents for now, until I can get a job and get my own apartment. Living back at home is kind of lame, but its ok. Only temporary. I'm not too proud to say no to free room and board!
heathen:
welcome back!
abadseed:
thanks!
well, it looks like i will be moving to my parent's house this weekend. i don't want to, but it will be good to save about $800/month. i'll be getting a bicycle, save some money on gas, and continue to work on losing the weight i've put on. not too bad, but i still want to get it off. getting up at 6am to run...
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definitely have to move out of my aunt's house. pretty damn sure i walked in on her getting head from her bf tonight. not a big deal for me, buuut they were super embarrassed. maybe they should have been in their bedroom instead of in the living room. i mean, i can dig it! i've been there! i want them to be able to do...
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