abadseed

not feeling like this long distance deal is going to work out...or maybe i'm a dick? i can't decide. she has 3 weeks off this summer, and is taking 10 days to try to come to columbus (where i am and she has lots of friends) cincinnati (where she has family) detroit (where her parents live) and chicagot (where her best friend lives). i understand wanting to see all of those people. but, should the person you lived with for a year, you are trying to maintain a relationship with, and don't know when you'll get to see again take some sort of precedence? i even said i would go out there for a week, and was told not to because "i'll be too busy." so, it would be just like when we were living together...seeing eachother in the evening and thats it. sooooo, whats the big deal? i dont know if i am just being an asshole or not. i explained all of this and got no response. i am afrustrated and confused panda.

ps- i moved away so that i could get my masters degree, and, because of class, i can't go with her to these other places. (and i did go last year when we did the midwest swing together)