Fish Fry tomorrow, not a bad way to end the weekend. Fish, Beer and Friends.
Sometimes, I just don't understand women. I dated a girl for a couple of months, everything seemed to be going good and she just kinda disappeared on me. I know life gets complicated, things with work, kids (she has them, I don't) and family issues can put a strain on a new relationship. But to totally stop returning calls or emails..is a little odd. Now, I'm not a stalker type about it. I'll call once or twice..and I don't hear back then I'll leave it alone. So anyways...It's been about a month since I heard anything from her and out of the blue..she texts me...saying "thinkin about you". She then says she made a mistake..and thinks we should go out and catch up. I don't hold grudges..and she is a really cool person..if I can get past..the whole disappearing thing. So I figure everyone fucks up..and I don't know the whole story..so why not.
So, I texted her last night..to see if she wanted to get together..grab a bite and catch up. I pretty much get the blow off of .."I'm not sure that's a good idea" and "I'll call you when I can". Ummmm...well okay. I'm really over head games..it's annoying and a little too high school for me. You know...I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. My female friends and family seem to think I attract women with issues or slightly crazy. Now, I'm not saying that issues are bad or I don't have them, I know that everyone has things that they need to deal with, are trying to deal with, or need help dealing with. I find the people, that know they have issues and don't want to work through them or deny they even have them. I'm thinking that the common denominator in all my relationships that have ended due to "craziness" is me...so either they are crazy..and I don't see it..or they aren't and I turn them that way. Either way..that is a problem.
I had plans to go see the local Roller Derby Girls, but that fell through. Would have been really great. They were having a free car wash last weekend..and I didn't have a chance to get my car washed, but pulled over long enough to give them a donation to help out. They all looked awesome. Maybe next weekend.
Fish Fry tomorrow. Catfish, Tilapia, Mahi Mahi, hush puppies, grits, coleslaw, and fries. And of course beer. Should be an exciting day...
Sometimes, I just don't understand women. I dated a girl for a couple of months, everything seemed to be going good and she just kinda disappeared on me. I know life gets complicated, things with work, kids (she has them, I don't) and family issues can put a strain on a new relationship. But to totally stop returning calls or emails..is a little odd. Now, I'm not a stalker type about it. I'll call once or twice..and I don't hear back then I'll leave it alone. So anyways...It's been about a month since I heard anything from her and out of the blue..she texts me...saying "thinkin about you". She then says she made a mistake..and thinks we should go out and catch up. I don't hold grudges..and she is a really cool person..if I can get past..the whole disappearing thing. So I figure everyone fucks up..and I don't know the whole story..so why not.
So, I texted her last night..to see if she wanted to get together..grab a bite and catch up. I pretty much get the blow off of .."I'm not sure that's a good idea" and "I'll call you when I can". Ummmm...well okay. I'm really over head games..it's annoying and a little too high school for me. You know...I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. My female friends and family seem to think I attract women with issues or slightly crazy. Now, I'm not saying that issues are bad or I don't have them, I know that everyone has things that they need to deal with, are trying to deal with, or need help dealing with. I find the people, that know they have issues and don't want to work through them or deny they even have them. I'm thinking that the common denominator in all my relationships that have ended due to "craziness" is me...so either they are crazy..and I don't see it..or they aren't and I turn them that way. Either way..that is a problem.
I had plans to go see the local Roller Derby Girls, but that fell through. Would have been really great. They were having a free car wash last weekend..and I didn't have a chance to get my car washed, but pulled over long enough to give them a donation to help out. They all looked awesome. Maybe next weekend.
Fish Fry tomorrow. Catfish, Tilapia, Mahi Mahi, hush puppies, grits, coleslaw, and fries. And of course beer. Should be an exciting day...
osaka:
thanks for the comment on my set