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* and now another of the "why can't I find someone to love" blogs *

I just don't get people...

I don't understand...

If you are in a bad situation, if someone makes you cry and unhappy all the time, if someone is a loser, if they hit you, if someone steals from you everything, physically, emotionally, spiritually...... why do you not walk away? Why do you stay, and cry and complain, and die inside and look to people for help? Why do you look to others for comfort?

You have the power to change whats happening to you... you can make it stop, you can fix it...
Walk away, leave, and find someone else who will care for you and make you happy.

If you touch a hot stove, and it burns, and it hurts, you pull your hand away... an invoulentary action

so............. after that happens, do you touch the stove AGAIN!!??!?!?!?!?!?!? NO! why? because you learned that fire + hot + touch = pain = bad

It's the law of survival... APPLY IT!

Maybe this is why I have no one to call my own? because I don't hit people, or yell, or because I'm not an alchy or druggie, because I have a job, and can pay my bills, and dont need to steal or endlessly borrow money from anyone, because my life is actually going somewhere and I have a plan... Is this why women are not interested in me?

You tell me.....