So, Governor McGreevey is gay. That's all I hear about, as I can see the New Jersey Capitol building from my bedroom window. Alot of people are missing the point-- the problem isn't that he's homosexual, it's that he put the people of NJ in danger by appointing his lover as head of security, when that man wasn't qualified.
Last night was so strange. Class...
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So.
We have wedding pictures of utmost delight and glee. Actually, alot of them are utterly cheesy, but some of them turned out nice. I'll scan some, maybe.
I have hesitated to mention this, but I applied to be a SuicideGirl a few weeks ago. I scored the first round, now I get to send in a set. I have a few ideas, I know...
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We have wedding pictures of utmost delight and glee. Actually, alot of them are utterly cheesy, but some of them turned out nice. I'll scan some, maybe.
I have hesitated to mention this, but I applied to be a SuicideGirl a few weeks ago. I scored the first round, now I get to send in a set. I have a few ideas, I know...
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lolobg:
I would wish you good luck, but I'm sure you'll make it on your own! After all, you are indeed hawt. Score to your hubby for noting that! I love the fighting sometimes, it's the cute bickering that makes you feel alive. Ha!
Sounds great!
Sounds great!
skrewbulb:
I'd like to visit a sex club. Not to have sex with others, but as an experience. Though I do believe my wife would get a little uneasy at that sort of function. Ah well, wadyagonna do?
I haven't updated in almost a week 
That's surprising for me. I've been "power-cleaning".
I will have my wedding pictures back in mere hours. Yay!
That's surprising for me. I've been "power-cleaning".
I will have my wedding pictures back in mere hours. Yay!
I found a house. I want it. It is 5000 dollars, total. It is an hour away. It has three bedrooms. It is in total disrepair. I want to fix it up and make it my own. Ed says it's too much work. But my dad agreed to come look at it with us, to give his professional opinion. My dad can do anything. 
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jonasthewhale:
you can get loans to include the purchase and the rehab you know
if the house cost 5K and needs 80K worth of work you could get a mortgage for 85K which would probably come out to about 700-900 per month
good luck
if the house cost 5K and needs 80K worth of work you could get a mortgage for 85K which would probably come out to about 700-900 per month
good luck
milhouseofpain:
I love oral sex and ice cream! Thanks for the comment
Okay. Hi. Thank you all for your comment,s I am going to try to respond to all of them personally over the next few days. But I do have alot of laundry to do.
Ugh, I have problems. That's right, I have problems. I have this thing where I am so paranoid about looking like an idiot, I'd rather make a huge deal about everything...
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Ugh, I have problems. That's right, I have problems. I have this thing where I am so paranoid about looking like an idiot, I'd rather make a huge deal about everything...
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joscelyne:
Anytime! xo
megarose:
i looks like i missed some drama. i hope things work out for you guys.
We're fighting right now, and it's bad. Real bad.
Last night, I got the "Oh I'm too tired for sex" line, and went to bed with minimal protest. For me, anyway. So I wake up this morning to find him still logged in, having stayed up well past 1 AM to watch cams and look at the "dicks and pussy" album and looking at profiles...
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Last night, I got the "Oh I'm too tired for sex" line, and went to bed with minimal protest. For me, anyway. So I wake up this morning to find him still logged in, having stayed up well past 1 AM to watch cams and look at the "dicks and pussy" album and looking at profiles...
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tall:
Ok this seems like Im walking into a boy-bashing session, but Il put my two cents in. Im a guy and no I dont have all the answers but Ill try and explain a bit.
Nobody likes being snooped on, male or female. I never listen to my girlfriend cell phone messages or check out where she has been surfing on he 'net. I tell her that I look at porn occasionaly, but I would not want her snooping top far into that. Sometimes I want to look at women who are not like her, or read stories that invove things that she isnt onto, but to tell her that I like to look at skinny dark haired girld giving blowjobs would not be good for anybody. I dont want to leave her (or have an affair with) a skinny dark haired girl that gives head, I just like to fantasize about it.
OTOH, you husband has responsabilities to you that include being your only sexual partner, and your partner and moral support. Having a baby is hard on your body and spirit. It is his job to love you and tell you that your beautiful and wonderfull and how much he appreciates the sacrifices that you have made having a baby with him.
He also needs to control his temper. If he had said, "Honey it makes me feel crepy when you look at where I surf" Instead of "fuck you" he probably would have gotten a lot further.
In our house morning (when my son isnt home) are our "relationship" times. no 'net, no newspaper reading just talking and cuddleing and occasionaly sex. Maybe you should ask for some of that- a time that works with your schedaule where it is all about connecting.
Jen used to do this thing that drove me nuts, where she woudl say that she wanted to spend time with me and then do the crosswords by herself. It made me incredably upset because I felt like a lap dog. We canceled our daily paper subscription and took care of that problem.
We are going to try and do counseling pretty soon too, becaus eovertime relationships devlope bad habits that need fine tuning. So I agree that is the way to go. I would add that breaking up with the father of your child is a big deal, and it leads to its own set of pains and heartaches. As a non custodial parent, I would not advise accept as a lat resort.
Thats my opinion anyway. Ill put my flame retardent suit on now.
Nobody likes being snooped on, male or female. I never listen to my girlfriend cell phone messages or check out where she has been surfing on he 'net. I tell her that I look at porn occasionaly, but I would not want her snooping top far into that. Sometimes I want to look at women who are not like her, or read stories that invove things that she isnt onto, but to tell her that I like to look at skinny dark haired girld giving blowjobs would not be good for anybody. I dont want to leave her (or have an affair with) a skinny dark haired girl that gives head, I just like to fantasize about it.
OTOH, you husband has responsabilities to you that include being your only sexual partner, and your partner and moral support. Having a baby is hard on your body and spirit. It is his job to love you and tell you that your beautiful and wonderfull and how much he appreciates the sacrifices that you have made having a baby with him.
He also needs to control his temper. If he had said, "Honey it makes me feel crepy when you look at where I surf" Instead of "fuck you" he probably would have gotten a lot further.
In our house morning (when my son isnt home) are our "relationship" times. no 'net, no newspaper reading just talking and cuddleing and occasionaly sex. Maybe you should ask for some of that- a time that works with your schedaule where it is all about connecting.
Jen used to do this thing that drove me nuts, where she woudl say that she wanted to spend time with me and then do the crosswords by herself. It made me incredably upset because I felt like a lap dog. We canceled our daily paper subscription and took care of that problem.
We are going to try and do counseling pretty soon too, becaus eovertime relationships devlope bad habits that need fine tuning. So I agree that is the way to go. I would add that breaking up with the father of your child is a big deal, and it leads to its own set of pains and heartaches. As a non custodial parent, I would not advise accept as a lat resort.
Thats my opinion anyway. Ill put my flame retardent suit on now.
beccy:
he is 5 month old now! you baby is soo cute 
In my latest frenzy of organization, I found this postcard buried in some drawer in the decrepit desk I've had in my desk since I moved in almost four years ago. Well, I found alot of them, but one strikes me: "My most precious Catherine", it starts out. I never even dated this guy, but he would write me the most wonderful letters from the...
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sweetbuns:
I just turned 29 and started to think about things like these. But I actually feel younger that my age. I've gone through my yearbook a couple of times and have seen a couple of people I went to school with. I even went to my high school reunion and it sucked!
I have become so... different. Now I am hyper-aware of other people, especially those who work in retail or food service. I'm one of those people that calls customer service hotlines on you if you're an asshole, or tells your manager if you rock. Yesterday alone, I told the girl at AC Moore who threw a conniption fit when she had to void my order...
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ginacherry:
Hey, thanks for the comments and have fun in NY.
nursesugar:
Same dress? HAHA wow! That's funny! I have no idea who the designer is, but it's a WAY expensive dress that I bought in the fashion district in NYC... there's this huge building, just known as 1358 broadway, that has big designer shops... that dress retails at $2500 and I bought the thing for $675! WOO HOO! I'm psyched about the little one... thanks! Married life rocks, doesn't it?
Married life rocks, doesn't it?Yesterday I thought we might break up. I was at this point where everything inside me was just going to boil over, I was angry and hurt and confused. And I really wanted to just say "I quit." But then we had a date night, and we talked for hours. About everything. And it was so good.
Sometimes I feel like such a spaz. My...
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missprint:
As for you fantasizing about my profile pic: 
That was an emote orgasm
If you are ever in town we must grab ass together at DKM shows. I can get one side and you can get the other
but Marc is all mine.
Feeling hot? You are hot damn it! Feel free to seek refuge from the stress of everyday life in my cleavage!
[Edited on Jul 22, 2004 11:05PM]
That was an emote orgasm
If you are ever in town we must grab ass together at DKM shows. I can get one side and you can get the other
but Marc is all mine.
Feeling hot? You are hot damn it! Feel free to seek refuge from the stress of everyday life in my cleavage!
[Edited on Jul 22, 2004 11:05PM]
saritalr:
*heart on you*
Added new pix, some silly ones of me (like my profile pic, where I was arguing with my husband, LOL) and of Emily's first birthday party.
Yesterday it rained like a bastard. I went to the dentist, and had to park way out in the lot. I thought to myself "it's going to pour," and sure enough, it did on the way out.
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Yesterday it rained like a bastard. I went to the dentist, and had to park way out in the lot. I thought to myself "it's going to pour," and sure enough, it did on the way out.
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jena:
Visit soon, I'm bored and being irresponsible. Like sleeping till past noon, etc. i start a new job next week, yay. Give a call whenever. Where's ED on this site???
Where's ED on this site???
sluttygoodgirl:
I hear ya about the kids vs. wanting to be wild thing. I think it's normal to still want to go out and have fun, even after kids. And you are still very young, so it's even more understandable. Like you said, you just have to find a middle ground - and go for it with the hair dying and such!!!
How about Top Five Faves??