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Great composition on this photo.

you can always vent to me. <3 good luck with whatever this is.

oh, i know. i just bring myself to vent this to anyone, though it made me feel a little better even being as vague as i am just to get something out.

good idea but i'd have to sculpt one first to make a mold...

miss you too!

Nice I wanted to get a new camera with my refund but it looks like its going to have to go into fixing/new laptop. enjoy your new toy

i wait for tons of sexy pics

ebay may have some teacups for cheapish, too!

i want to come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Heh, did you see we were both included in this treasury? But on opposite sides =)
Packers vs Steelers

I love my power juicer so much! Dehydrator would be like it's evil twin.

Only calories and chemicals that destroy your organs can cause weight gain. You will be ok. Bodybuilders drink soy for the protein, so if it really had bad hormones they wouldn't take it(not that they care about health). I wouldn't worry.

It's not me and weight gain. It was referring to men and the affects of soy. And the way soy reacts with other chemicals in your body are what would cause the inability to burn calories as you normally would. I'm not worried.

Thank you x

hahahaha, i totally forgot that EVERYONE sees when you join a new group! hahahaha.

I came in less than 20 mins just thinking about it.

awww, Mongrel, you say the sweetest things. <3

i want to find a job



and that is amazing!!!!!!!!!!! im so happy you had a good weekend!

Grats on the great sex!

(Minor correction: Ukranian Christmas is tomorrow, Friday.)

When my wife and I went to counseling, one of the things the therapist emphasized was the importance of getting away from the routine and spending time together -- that even if all we had time for was a 15 minute walk together, that it was worth doing. We tried it for a while, and it really did help us. Unfortunately, those outings migrated in to mostly "running errands", such as doing grocery shopping -- not really "us" time. But at least we get to do the errands together with opportunities to talk and laugh or hug or what-ever we feel like.

Every serious psychologist I have read or talked to (except perhaps one) has emphasized the value of some "self-time". "self-time" doesn't necessarily mean that you must leave the place (but you can do that if you want, for sure), but that for that time, someone else has the responsibilities and you get to do whatever recharges you, whether that's a hot bath, or watching an old Hawaii Five-Oh, or feeding the birds in the park, or closing yourself in the bedroom and listening to YOUR music on headphones. It isn't a "gift" that one partner gives another, it is a basic necessity. It isn't possible to be "on duty" 24 hours a day 7 days a week. My doctor would explain it in terms of cortisone build-up. Just by looking at the color of my skin, and pressing his thumb in my arm and watching how long it took for my arm to turn "pink" again, he could tell that I'd been past the point of overload for a minimum of 3 years, with 5 years more likely. Stress affects your health.


Which indirectly reminds me: since you have two children, one with your present partner and one before, and the present partner isn't doing much towards raising the kids, you should be preparing papers against the possibility that you might be unable to raise the children yourself for lesser or greater periods. A 24 hour flu is one thing, a month(s)-long stay in the hospital due to (say) pneumonia, or a drunk car driver, is another thing.

We flew

happy birthday!

Happy Birthday!