"Life changing decisions" is a hefty thing to think about.
I first think about the moral stance of it and if I would feel guilty at all. I often make decisions based on realistic posibility and the mental impact it has on everyone involved.
I look at the financial impact of whatever decision it is and if I am still able to pay my bills,
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emmegizeta:
well, no one expects you know what's the best for you 😅 so listen the advice of your friends/family but make your own decisions 👍
userdelete329:
Im pretty bad with this. I think its good that you think of the moral. I really like that and it once was something where I nearly was proud on myself, but yeah... big mistakes made me stop to pretend I can be proud on my moral. Im a big big fan of listen to my heart and I maybe give them around 80-90% power for the final decision cause I dont think something else will point me to the place where I need to be but sometimes I listen to much on this. On the one hand its great and I really feel happy but sometimes I cage myself in a perfect Disney world where everyone is nice or in the opposite. Im not yet grown up fully and I wanna have time for small mistakes. Im not so close with my parents and the other person are no option for me. Money for sure is important. I dont wanna end like yeah, you know. I just like punk music and a little lifestyle but I dont wanna loose a clean home and my travel plans. A pro contra list can help sometimes too I think or write it down generally. It need to be the right and thankfully I dont have such a criminal heart that it would me wanted things which are illegal most of the time. Maybe im to selfish to listen to someone else or I wanna do my own mistakes to be sure. I have my granddad but yeah. I love him but times change and that's good and I cant talk about everything with him. I think you have a good plan if you do it like that, very healthy and maybe I need to grow up someday to give my brain more power but for now I only listen to my heart. Between all others its the best opinion.
