I play the part of the hardass pretty well.
When in the midst of singledom, I like to throw around big f-bombs to things like playing the relationship game and fuck situations where you leave yourself open for hurt and people should just piss or get off the pot when it comes to matters of the heart.
And tonight, as I touted myself as my...
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When in the midst of singledom, I like to throw around big f-bombs to things like playing the relationship game and fuck situations where you leave yourself open for hurt and people should just piss or get off the pot when it comes to matters of the heart.
And tonight, as I touted myself as my...
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gogobongo:
Well, I hope yours will go smoother than mine. Mine seems to be disentigrating right in my hands. I'll call you soon babe.
subrosa:
'Brosa likes sauce, be it awesome or no.
I did it.
Karaoke. I draged my butch lesbian friend Courtney and the Eirik I speak of so often. I did "this charming man" and a killer drunk version of "jolene".
We danced to .....fuck. i cant remember the song. but we danced. My arms around his neck. my head on his shoulder. We danced.
4 frozen margaritas later, he walked outside. Courtney, being smart...
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Karaoke. I draged my butch lesbian friend Courtney and the Eirik I speak of so often. I did "this charming man" and a killer drunk version of "jolene".
We danced to .....fuck. i cant remember the song. but we danced. My arms around his neck. my head on his shoulder. We danced.
4 frozen margaritas later, he walked outside. Courtney, being smart...
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holliday:
You, me, and everyone else who's ever had their heart broken...
While I love a guy who's in touch with himself enough to put words together like, "I'm vulnerable."
And while I respect their not wanting to screw things up...(i feel the same way)
There's GOT to be a way to move forward...if you figure it out, will you let me know?!
(i'm in the same prediciment right now)
While I love a guy who's in touch with himself enough to put words together like, "I'm vulnerable."
And while I respect their not wanting to screw things up...(i feel the same way)
There's GOT to be a way to move forward...if you figure it out, will you let me know?!
(i'm in the same prediciment right now)
tangledupinblue:
see, this is the range of emotions I felt during last year's Natinal League Championship Series.
I bet yours will have a better ending than mine did!
I bet yours will have a better ending than mine did!
He called last night around 10:30.
"It's tuesday. Right?", he asks
"yeah"
"I just woke up. What are you doin."
"Watching tv. Nothing is on though."
We discuss the fact that we thought there was a spurs game on but that its actually on the next night and that we really miss Space Ghost Coast to Coast. We spend 10 minutes trying to figure out...
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"It's tuesday. Right?", he asks
"yeah"
"I just woke up. What are you doin."
"Watching tv. Nothing is on though."
We discuss the fact that we thought there was a spurs game on but that its actually on the next night and that we really miss Space Ghost Coast to Coast. We spend 10 minutes trying to figure out...
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gogobongo:
Goos going. Sounds like fun. Mine on the other hand is awkward. Last weekend was not the good crazy kind of weekend. I don't know. It has been two months, we have hung out half a dozen times. It might just be me but that seems like too short of a time for her to want to tell me the "L" word. And not the good "I like women" "L" word. It also seems too soon for me to be talking about children. Is this a jewish thing? Some crazy biological clock thing? I don't know but although I like her pushing me to grow and change I just think that her agenda is a bit too fast paced for me. Hmmm, I don't know. I want to get married and have kids and all but I don't want to build a relationship just on that. She talked about last night wanting to raise our kids jewish, and I am agnostic and I wouldn't mind her teaching anything she wants it was the idea of discussing all of this now that makes me want to run for the hills. I am going to see her this weekend and we'll talk and see. Ever have something move this fast?
admiral_pants:
There will be much karaoke when I arrive.
Oh, yes.
Oh, yes.
"Really, Eirik. You HAVE to start getting out more. meeting people. You can't keep to yourself in your house, crying over her forever, ya know"
This is the sort of advice I give over brunch to friends in the deepest, darkest parts of a breakup. I'm of the "shake it off" sort.
He hangs his head, knowing I'm right. He says he's sorry for flaking...
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This is the sort of advice I give over brunch to friends in the deepest, darkest parts of a breakup. I'm of the "shake it off" sort.
He hangs his head, knowing I'm right. He says he's sorry for flaking...
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thefreak:
Awwwww. 
-TM
-TM
unravled:
To get more laydees?
snow is gone. au revoir, Texas winter. See you again in 2009
No dates this weekend. But the boy did call me at about just after midnight after I replied to a text of his.
My windshield wipers arent working. Well, they go up about an inch and then right back down. Its as if they think my windshield has all of a sudden become...
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No dates this weekend. But the boy did call me at about just after midnight after I replied to a text of his.
My windshield wipers arent working. Well, they go up about an inch and then right back down. Its as if they think my windshield has all of a sudden become...
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obd:
are they frozen?
volkov:
being frozen may have seperated the gears that mesh together to make them move. so they may be moving only that slight bit on the merit of the gears just rolling against each other.
Snow!
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thefreak:
In Texas? GAH!
-TM
-TM
smuffy:
no way!
we haven't even gotten any here.
we haven't even gotten any here.
So, date rundown.
Pre-movie chit chat was good. He didnt even mind too much when I called my friend, a Saints fan, and broke the news to Wayne that the Saints beat the Eagles (his team).
Armrest stayed up.
He offered to pay. I convinced him to go splitsies with me instead.
Walked me to my car.
Hug, kiss on the cheek.
End.
But I'm...
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Pre-movie chit chat was good. He didnt even mind too much when I called my friend, a Saints fan, and broke the news to Wayne that the Saints beat the Eagles (his team).
Armrest stayed up.
He offered to pay. I convinced him to go splitsies with me instead.
Walked me to my car.
Hug, kiss on the cheek.
End.
But I'm...
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smuffy:
I never said I hated tom waits, I'm just not interested in his music.
shiiiiit.
shiiiiit.
gogobongo:
It was sooo good to see you too, dearie. What a great surprise. and we were all at the same movie together, how bizarre! 
So, I'd written off my mechanic guy. I sent him one last text message sunday after rehersals to let him know what happened with the girl I posted about. I got a txt back that said "congr". Is that even english?
He never replied to indicate he got my "i like you" text.
So, I do what I always do. I bitch and moan and...
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He never replied to indicate he got my "i like you" text.
So, I do what I always do. I bitch and moan and...
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admiral_pants:
I like Tom Waits, but only when he's drowning puppies.
holliday:
LOL...first of all...don't write anyone off due to text messaging...especially a mechanic!
As for Waits? I admit, I don't know much of his stuff.
But look, I like a dude that doesn't like Shinedown...what can I do?
(insist our next road trip, i drive, and force him to listen to it! drivers choice and all, right?)
As for Waits? I admit, I don't know much of his stuff.
But look, I like a dude that doesn't like Shinedown...what can I do?
(insist our next road trip, i drive, and force him to listen to it! drivers choice and all, right?)
If there is anything good that can come from Burlesque drama, its that it makes boy drama pale in comparison.
So, a couple weeks back, I posted a journal entry about some issues with one of the girls in the troop.
Today was our first rehersal after the break.
She never called back to talk to me.
Well, the first half hour of what should...
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So, a couple weeks back, I posted a journal entry about some issues with one of the girls in the troop.
Today was our first rehersal after the break.
She never called back to talk to me.
Well, the first half hour of what should...
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msstabby:
It is onto the people who are honest and trustworthy that those who are not project their own deep inner guilt that they can't ever admit to themselves (or anyone else for that matter). You were her projection screen. She could not even take responsibility for quitting, she had to project that responsibility onto you too.
its kindof a compliment in a weirdass psycho way.
its kindof a compliment in a weirdass psycho way.
inlikeflynn:
I'm in with doodlebug on this one.
"I dont need anything from you so I'm going to take my stuff and just know that its YOU who kicked me out and that I didn't quit"
sounds like a mad little temper tantrum. 'mommy, if you don't let me stay up late, I'm gonna run away from home and I'll get hit by a car and die and it'll be all your fault.'
pah.
"I dont need anything from you so I'm going to take my stuff and just know that its YOU who kicked me out and that I didn't quit"
sounds like a mad little temper tantrum. 'mommy, if you don't let me stay up late, I'm gonna run away from home and I'll get hit by a car and die and it'll be all your fault.'
pah.
I just did the stupidest thing I could have done tonight...
update: well, long story short, tonight was a great night for our burlesque troop (two new bookings, got pimped out by THE premier burlesque troop in town at their show tonight) and I got all drunk with power and sent a text message to that guy I've been seeing, telling him I was tired...
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update: well, long story short, tonight was a great night for our burlesque troop (two new bookings, got pimped out by THE premier burlesque troop in town at their show tonight) and I got all drunk with power and sent a text message to that guy I've been seeing, telling him I was tired...
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toothpickmoe:
Sounds like a good plan.
alisa:
congrats on being so brave and going for it. what did he say?!!!
So. Date
Scale of 1- 10, it was a 7
Movie dates are always kinda wierd.
pluses:
1) he paid. not that im a mooch or whatever, but i was stressed out about money and told him so yesterday and offered to do something else or postpone but he offered
2) he left the armrest up (they have those "loveseats" where you can either leave...
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Scale of 1- 10, it was a 7
Movie dates are always kinda wierd.
pluses:
1) he paid. not that im a mooch or whatever, but i was stressed out about money and told him so yesterday and offered to do something else or postpone but he offered
2) he left the armrest up (they have those "loveseats" where you can either leave...
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meaney:
"pluses" just looks funny.
i'm too lazy to look into it myself, so get some of our people on it. like... like simmons. put simmons on it. he doesn't seem to get anything else done around here. i hear he has hemorrhoids... a giant vein pulsating in his rear. you wouldn't think he'd sit around so much. i hear his wife has no pulse. that's "pulses," plural... not "pluses." yeah... put simmons on it... you know? instead of just date advice? smell what i'm cookin'?
i'm too lazy to look into it myself, so get some of our people on it. like... like simmons. put simmons on it. he doesn't seem to get anything else done around here. i hear he has hemorrhoids... a giant vein pulsating in his rear. you wouldn't think he'd sit around so much. i hear his wife has no pulse. that's "pulses," plural... not "pluses." yeah... put simmons on it... you know? instead of just date advice? smell what i'm cookin'?
smuffy:
it doesn't sound like you're that into him, bv.
what's your first name by the way?
what's your first name by the way?
2nd date.
tomorrow
dinner and a movie.
god help me
tomorrow
dinner and a movie.
god help me
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crmstylprn:
Did ya get some?.....no, I ask the questions that matter.
shesinparties:
is a second date the thing where after the first date the guy still likes you and wants to see you again? i am not familiar with that......... maybe it is because of my "low quality" status 
hope you had a great time
hope you had a great time