One night, a few weeks back, I met this girl at a bar. One moment I was drunk and sitting by myself. Then the next moment, I had a girl under my arm and she had her head on my shoulder. My buddy noticed this just at the same I came to realize it and gave me the 'yeah, dude - go for it' look. I ended up with the girl at my friends apartment and he decided his night wasn't done and left us to ourselves. We started making out for a bit but then she asked if I wanted to go to bed. Now we're in bed and start making out some more, but then she pulled away so she could throw up all over the bed. She didn't vomit because of anything I did. The poor girl just consumed to much alcohol. It was fucking disgusting but I did the good-guy role and helped her out.
Anyways, i'll fast forward and spare the details of the awkward breakfast. I take her home and avoid getting her number. I just didn't have a fun time. A couple of days go by and the girl finds me on MySpace. Alright, so I kinda get to know the girl a bit and she seems cool and likes some decent music, etc. Around that time, something happened. Another girl I had known, but lost contact with, found me on MySpace and we've been talking. Since then I have formed a major crush on the second girl. She's beautiful, she likes the same type of shit I like, she does these little facial things that I find adorable, etc.
So we hung out and she's waaaAAaay fucking cool. Her birthday is tomorrow and I bought and gave her an early birthday present. I got her a book that's a compilation of stuff from Punk Magazine. I wasn't sure if she was into reading, so that was perfect because the whole thing read like a comic book and had tons of pictures. She's real into the 77' scene and her favorite band is New York Dolls. I also bought her a NYDolls sticker and made her a decent mixtape of stuff I thought she'de like. Stuff like Mumps, Dictators, early Devo, Bloodless Pharoahs, Dickies, Leyton Buzzards, Damned, etc. We even had a conversation about the Velvet Underground earlier, so I think I scored some extra points when I included Eater's cover of 'Waiting For the Man' on the mixtape. The next day she told me that she "loved" the comp. YeeEEeess!!
That same night, the other girl calls my ass up at 4:50am and leaves me a voice message that I would have to hire scientists just to try and decipher. I couldn't understand a goddamn word that girl was saying. The day before that, we were to hang out and she flaked. I sent her a text message to a phone that she told me was her cell phone. However, I get a response that said "Who is this?" I sent one back asking if it was her or not. Then I got a duplicate response. Then I responded with 'Sorry, I must have the wrong number." Then some fucking guy calls my phone and starts asking who I am. I was like "I'm not telling you who I am." I wasn't gonna play this little 'be-a-badass' game with him, so I hung up. He tried calling back a few times and eventually left a voice message. It ended up being from her telling me to call some other number. Whatever.
So, anyways, now with the girl I actually like, she hasn't bothered to call or contact me. I've contacted her plenty of times to either little or no response. So, I am going to lay low the next couple of days. I don't want to be that guy that begins to annoy. I am, however, not going to miss out on saying Happy Birthday to her though. I don't want that to come back to haunt me. I really like this girl and want to score as many brownie points as I can.
Anyways, now I am kinda stuck between a rock and a hard place. I don't want to be single anymore. I have been too long. I want the whole relationship and falling in love experience. I know I can date the first girl, but I would rather take my chances with the second girl. The thing is, I don't know if she's into me like that. We've talked about it and she said it was possible. However, I just don't know. I am wondering if I should keep the first girl around as a backup in case I don't successfully obtain the affections of the second girl? I know that's not fair to do but a lot of this kinda stuff confuses me greatly. I could probably use some female advice. Don't get me wrong, I like both girls. The first one just isn't as glamorous as the second. Bleh, what should I do?
Anyways, i'll fast forward and spare the details of the awkward breakfast. I take her home and avoid getting her number. I just didn't have a fun time. A couple of days go by and the girl finds me on MySpace. Alright, so I kinda get to know the girl a bit and she seems cool and likes some decent music, etc. Around that time, something happened. Another girl I had known, but lost contact with, found me on MySpace and we've been talking. Since then I have formed a major crush on the second girl. She's beautiful, she likes the same type of shit I like, she does these little facial things that I find adorable, etc.
So we hung out and she's waaaAAaay fucking cool. Her birthday is tomorrow and I bought and gave her an early birthday present. I got her a book that's a compilation of stuff from Punk Magazine. I wasn't sure if she was into reading, so that was perfect because the whole thing read like a comic book and had tons of pictures. She's real into the 77' scene and her favorite band is New York Dolls. I also bought her a NYDolls sticker and made her a decent mixtape of stuff I thought she'de like. Stuff like Mumps, Dictators, early Devo, Bloodless Pharoahs, Dickies, Leyton Buzzards, Damned, etc. We even had a conversation about the Velvet Underground earlier, so I think I scored some extra points when I included Eater's cover of 'Waiting For the Man' on the mixtape. The next day she told me that she "loved" the comp. YeeEEeess!!
That same night, the other girl calls my ass up at 4:50am and leaves me a voice message that I would have to hire scientists just to try and decipher. I couldn't understand a goddamn word that girl was saying. The day before that, we were to hang out and she flaked. I sent her a text message to a phone that she told me was her cell phone. However, I get a response that said "Who is this?" I sent one back asking if it was her or not. Then I got a duplicate response. Then I responded with 'Sorry, I must have the wrong number." Then some fucking guy calls my phone and starts asking who I am. I was like "I'm not telling you who I am." I wasn't gonna play this little 'be-a-badass' game with him, so I hung up. He tried calling back a few times and eventually left a voice message. It ended up being from her telling me to call some other number. Whatever.
So, anyways, now with the girl I actually like, she hasn't bothered to call or contact me. I've contacted her plenty of times to either little or no response. So, I am going to lay low the next couple of days. I don't want to be that guy that begins to annoy. I am, however, not going to miss out on saying Happy Birthday to her though. I don't want that to come back to haunt me. I really like this girl and want to score as many brownie points as I can.
Anyways, now I am kinda stuck between a rock and a hard place. I don't want to be single anymore. I have been too long. I want the whole relationship and falling in love experience. I know I can date the first girl, but I would rather take my chances with the second girl. The thing is, I don't know if she's into me like that. We've talked about it and she said it was possible. However, I just don't know. I am wondering if I should keep the first girl around as a backup in case I don't successfully obtain the affections of the second girl? I know that's not fair to do but a lot of this kinda stuff confuses me greatly. I could probably use some female advice. Don't get me wrong, I like both girls. The first one just isn't as glamorous as the second. Bleh, what should I do?