Ok so I have been thinking. I may as well just drop the whole story since only a couple people(maybe that many) people read my blog on here.
So I was married for about 3 years, was with my wife before that for quite awhile. A total of 10 years is what we spent together and like right after we got married our sex life went down the tubes. I could never really figure out what was wrong with me or what I was doing wrong, until after a little while. I realized the problem wasn't me but it was my wife rather who actually like the ladies a hell of a lot more than guys. When I approached her about it she totally denied it until one night when we spent all night sitting up and talking and I finally said that what we had going wasn't working and that I still thought she was a lesbian. At that point she came out to me.
Now the moral of my story here isn't to tell everyone a detail of my life that is rather personal but instead to get a point out. My best friend and I, formerly my wife, have been spending a lot of time watching Showtime's "The L Word" and in season one there is this girl who is head over heels for her boyfriend unti along comes this hottie who sweeps her off her feet and she falls in love with her. The only problem is the whole thing is tearing her apart because she doesn't want to hurt her man.
OK BACK TO THE MORAL OF THE STORY.....
The moral of my story is: Ladies, if you are gay and you are in a hetero relationship, no matter how long you have been together, it wil lbe a lot less painful for everyone if you just come clean rather than worrying about your mans feelings. The sooner you get it out there the sooner everyone will be able to be happy and move on.
and yes...my life does play out like a movie(as fucked up, but happy as it is).
So I was married for about 3 years, was with my wife before that for quite awhile. A total of 10 years is what we spent together and like right after we got married our sex life went down the tubes. I could never really figure out what was wrong with me or what I was doing wrong, until after a little while. I realized the problem wasn't me but it was my wife rather who actually like the ladies a hell of a lot more than guys. When I approached her about it she totally denied it until one night when we spent all night sitting up and talking and I finally said that what we had going wasn't working and that I still thought she was a lesbian. At that point she came out to me.
Now the moral of my story here isn't to tell everyone a detail of my life that is rather personal but instead to get a point out. My best friend and I, formerly my wife, have been spending a lot of time watching Showtime's "The L Word" and in season one there is this girl who is head over heels for her boyfriend unti along comes this hottie who sweeps her off her feet and she falls in love with her. The only problem is the whole thing is tearing her apart because she doesn't want to hurt her man.
OK BACK TO THE MORAL OF THE STORY.....
The moral of my story is: Ladies, if you are gay and you are in a hetero relationship, no matter how long you have been together, it wil lbe a lot less painful for everyone if you just come clean rather than worrying about your mans feelings. The sooner you get it out there the sooner everyone will be able to be happy and move on.
and yes...my life does play out like a movie(as fucked up, but happy as it is).
squeekker:
i heart you!