a few years back i started to wear ear plugs to shows; not to save my hearing, however. I found that i could actually hear the music better that way, rather than all the distortion
A friend of mine works for a company which markets products to young men. The company discussed using an attractive, scantily clad woman in an ad. The female employees primarily in the accounting department threw a fit!! They became enraged about how degrading it was to women to have one in their ad. So instead the company agreed to continue to have only photos of... Read More
Ok so I read the post and wasn't sure just what to type in response. But then after a bit of thinking, and shaking off some distractions I thought of something I could add to the discussion.
In the years that the missus and I have been involved in the swinging community, aka "the lifestyle" we've come across the most unusual circumstance.
It would appear that amongst so called "open-minded" people the men AND women both carry the same double standard. You see if you are in a couple and you invite a woman to your bedroom then it is fine, sport even, but if you invite a MAN then it is cheating.
Not my idea, but it's altogether too common.
In my opinion this viewpoint is an insult to a womans sexuality. Somehow sex that involves two women is not sex in the minds of these people. It's regarded as play and nothing else. I'd have to assume that there isn't a lesbian in the world who holds such a dismissive attitude towards their sexual encounters. And though I could prattle on endlessly about the reasons it exist in the community I'm perfectly capable of summing it up briefly. This attitude grows out of the insecurity and homophobia of the men, and is compounded the men-on-men specific homophobia of the women and their lifetime of programming that tells them to do whatever it takes to make their men happy.
Sad state of affairs amonst people who claim to be open minded.
I work in IT, so feminism.....
Yeah, out the window. It makes me sad that my field is the only one that graduates LESS women every year. Even the hard sciences and math do better.
And I think, especially from talking to women who are starting out in college in my field, that it's because of the behavior of the people in the field. All women in a programming class seem to be treated as if they're retarded.
When I lived in Florida all I did was sleep, the heat is just not my thing. And all my friends would tell me "hey man you shouldn't wear black in this weather" Fuck them...
Finally I think good stuff is happening. Thank you, whatever planet of suck which has been hovering over me the last few months, for finally fucking off. I can't say I'll miss you.
I had a great time at the Element a440 show last night. One of the dancers flaked so I became the impromptu fill in. I hope everyone was looking at Halo or Sara. I was a little nervous since I was up on stage in front of a ton of people in my bra and someone elses skirt with no time to rehearse or anything.... Read More
Happy Cinco de Mayo!! To those who celebrate! Please enjoy MUCHO cerveza just for me!! I'd be out doing something cultural and fun except I'm playing nurse once again, and not in a fun sexy way
My god!! The sickness in my house doesn't end. Yet another person has been taken down by the dread tummy troubles. It is awful. I have gone through an... Read More
TOTALLY go check out the stuff I'm selling on eBay.
Some of it I made, some is just stuff I don't want anymore. I have one men's thing and women's stuff.
I'm selling it with my friend's account, and friend's paypal so you won't get my address, in case you feel like stalking me, but you can stalk the old ugly guy friend of mine,... Read More
Has anyone else watched MXC? I think I seriously hurt myself laughing watching that show. Which is kind of good because I needed to laugh.
**** MXC is a dubbed and butchered version of a Japanese game show Takeshi's Castle, the dubbing is beyond hilarious. You have to watch a show or two to totally understand that it isn't a game anymore, you are watching... Read More
send em my way and i'll send you the linkers.
it was actually a fishnet tank top with a fancy bra on the outside and a corset underneath.