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Disturbing: Christian Spanking Porn
I do not know if you have discussed this topic previously, my apologies if I am reinventing the wheel.
http://gretachristina.typepad.com/greta_christinas_weblog/2007/09/christian-spank.html
And the same people who put up these links...are against porn???!!!?
I do not know if you have discussed this topic previously, my apologies if I am reinventing the wheel.
http://gretachristina.typepad.com/greta_christinas_weblog/2007/09/christian-spank.html
And the same people who put up these links...are against porn???!!!?
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matt_organic:
That rules. It will be 40 below in Hell before my seed is ever allowed to spread.
[Edited on Apr 11, 2004 by matt_organic]
[Edited on Apr 11, 2004 by matt_organic]
hammersmith:
Haha, brilliant!
slevinjones
Lately I'v been wondering if self discipline is a personality trat people are born with or is self discipline something that can to taught or learned in a person???
After spending a few years searching for who i am iv got a pretty good grip on-who i am, also i …
After spending a few years searching for who i am iv got a pretty good grip on-who i am, also i …
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gompo:
like freud said constituion and personality ?
daimona and tuke ?
how do you undrestand these words ?
daimona and tuke ?
how do you undrestand these words ?
selene:
hellstorm is right, with most traits, I'm sure self-discipline included, it is more of a combination of genetics and outside influence. I know that addictions are very much a combination like that, if you are not predisposed to addictions, you will probably not be burdened with one...on the same note, if you ARE predisposed you are not always going to have an addiction, but the "urge" might be there and if the right conditions are present, the addiction will develop.
It's not a perfect science, but in your case, since you know you are predisposed to NOT having self-control, you can try doing different environmental things that might help you gain a bit more. One thing you might want to try would be some form of meditation, it doesn't have to be the sitting and chanting kind, really any repetitive action can work.
Also, it sounds totally stupid, I admit it, BUT rewards systems can be a good tool as well; start small.
For example: try it with something like snack food first. You want some cookies (or whatever) and instead of going and getting them, set yourself a goal like: If you wait for 1 hour before going for the cookies, you can have an extra treat of some kind...like sleeping in late for a day or going to the movies, any activity that you might not do all the time that you find enjoyable. You're essentially bribing yourself, but it really can work! And you just build your way up to the big things
It's not a perfect science, but in your case, since you know you are predisposed to NOT having self-control, you can try doing different environmental things that might help you gain a bit more. One thing you might want to try would be some form of meditation, it doesn't have to be the sitting and chanting kind, really any repetitive action can work.
Also, it sounds totally stupid, I admit it, BUT rewards systems can be a good tool as well; start small. For example: try it with something like snack food first. You want some cookies (or whatever) and instead of going and getting them, set yourself a goal like: If you wait for 1 hour before going for the cookies, you can have an extra treat of some kind...like sleeping in late for a day or going to the movies, any activity that you might not do all the time that you find enjoyable. You're essentially bribing yourself, but it really can work! And you just build your way up to the big things
omerta_
So from all the posts about our horses and introducing ourselves, it's fair to say that there is a range of disciplines in this group.
So my question is, what discipline do you ride, and why did you pick it?
For me personally I've ridden western and english pleasure horses, …
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erloria:
I'm jump and racehorses rider =) I would really love to try eventing, horseball and barrel race!!!
tmax:
I grew up riding western but have ridden jumpers and eventers in my adult life. I haven't shown in many years. I own a horse and cattle farm. I do the occasional trail ride but no competition. Just recently picked up some western tack. Used to breed and import Dutch warmbloods. Iused to always start all the young horses. Too many injuries. The most fun was a beach ride near Ponte Vedra beach in Florida!!
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I had to attend training yesterday for being a shop steward. It was all about how management and stewards need to work together instead of fighting each other. The key point was that instead of disciplining workers, they should be working on correcting the actions of the workers. I understood the training. About three hours late I found out that a worker is headed for...
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I've decided I need discipline in my life. Lots of it, too.
Unfortunately, I'm not talking about the fun, spanky, pinchy kind of discipline. I mean the diet, exercise and sobriety kind of discipline.
Damn. THAT'S no fun at all.
Still, I wouldn't mind a little abuse -- just for giggles.
Unfortunately, I'm not talking about the fun, spanky, pinchy kind of discipline. I mean the diet, exercise and sobriety kind of discipline.
Damn. THAT'S no fun at all.
Still, I wouldn't mind a little abuse -- just for giggles.
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Calico said:
This is the creepiest thing I have ever read. I'm spoilering it, because it may be a trigger for anyone who has been through abuse. Also, it's really long.
HOW TO DISCIPLINE YOUR WIFE
The Application of Discipline to Your Wife
You must always remember those two sin dynamics common to all women, for the vast majority of your discipline will stem from her struggles concerning them. Of course, each wife has peculiar struggles for you to deal with as well, and you'll need to be aware of them when they rear their heads.
First, do not attempt to discipline your wife without first going to the Lord in prayer. No man alone is wise enough, and we must seek the Lord when faced with discipline issues.
There are two primary methods to discipline in the home towards wives, and one necessary means of grace. Following are the methods of discipline:
1. Exhortation. When your wife is sinning, exhort her with the Word. Use your Bibles, gents! This needs to be done with gentleness, and often you will need to repeat yourself several times (using similar words) before it sinks in. Remember always, when disciplining that the person before you is the most cherished, adored person in your universe. Treat her as such. If you have children, it may, depending on how her sin touched the children require that they be present. However, keep control of the situation. DO NOT LET THE CHILDREN EXHORT YOUR WIFE DIRECTLY! There are times when children may do so, but once you're involved, it's your show, Husband. If the children have something to say (and you feel that it needs to be heard) have them address you, and not her. You are your wife's leader and authority in the home, not the children. Do not risk upsetting that balance.
2. Rebuke and Lash. This is the harshest discipline a husband should administer, and it should always be done privately and with Godly, Biblical love. Usually, exhortation will have already taken place before this method is used, but there may come situations where this is the first step. The rebuke and lashing should be administered with a calm heart. Talk to your wife, let her know you are serious, and tell her why she is to be disciplined physically.
When administering physical discipline, take caution not to deliver the lashes anywhere but the buttocks. The first attempt at this punishment should only be delivered by hand so you can get an idea of how many lashings are needed. The best position will be for you to sit at the end of a bed or on a chair (with no arms) and have her lay across your lap. She can also bend over a bed with arms tucked under her chest and your left hand on the small of her back. If a strap (belt) is to be implemented watch that each stoke falls directly on the buttocks and not higher. EDITOR'S NOTE: When using the hand, or a small, short implement, such as a switch or small "hairbrush"-type paddle, over-the-knee positioning can work quite well.
A fearful wife may begin crying or pleading and find it difficult to remain still. Reassure her. of your intent and love (yes this will hurt, that is why it is a punishment) then instruct her to be still. Remind her that she is not in control of this discipline. You should continue the lashing through her tears and pleas for you to stop, until you are certain the message was received. This will insure her remorse and therefore stop the undesirable behavior.
A sound lashing is five to ten strokes with your hand, or three to five strokes with a strap; some wives need more. To avoid brusing do not strike the same area in repetition. Gauge your decision to proceed based on your wife's readiness to repent.
You may find it difficult to cause your wife pain, but as a woman she needs the release of guilt that this form of punishment brings. Afterwards, help her up gently and hold her while allowing her to cry for as long as you both feel necessary. If you have children instruct her to wash her face before emerging from the room.
Remember to stay in control at all times so her faith in you is not rattled. Her reaction after the lashing will let you know if this punishment works for her. She should be genuinely remorseful, tearful, and sore, but have an overwhelming desire to please you.
This act also gives you, the husband, a release of anger and disappointment which allows your relationship to become immediately bonded in a closeness you may have otherwise never achieved. Because of your love and discipline, your fights no longer last for days or even hours. The quick resolve of immediate discipline allows you to reconnect, which in turn rapidly eliminates resentment.
Do not make apologies for the punishment as this will cast doubt in her mind of your authority. The amount of rebuke and lash sessions may be high at first but should slowly decrease as she learns her new role in the relationship, and you embrace yours. Never use ad-homonym attacks and never bring up past sins that have already been forgiven. Deal with the issue at hand, and nothing more. The gift you give your wife in this act will lead to her soul's full surrender allowing her to embrace her femininity.
Once discipline is administered and repentance is given, we can hopefully move onto the next phase, which is forgiveness and prayer. Remember that you are a sinner too, and are not above reproach. Demonstrate this to her, and to the Lord. Once she has been convicted, be willing to forgive immediately. Don't waste a moment, and show this forgiveness through praising her and showing her right then the extent that you cherish her. Remember that being cherished is the greatest enabling thing you can show her that gives her emotional and spiritual security, as well as builds her trust in your leadership. This is a crucial step; don't neglect it!
Well, that made my skin crawl.
Mine too. Hoooooo-ly.