nice shoes...

Just start by saying hi. Then take a 2 second pause while looking directly into her eyes. Whats your name... my name is innerview... what you up to, you come here often, whats your favorite place, wanna walk with me...
Everytime you take a short pause like there is no rush. You may think that she might let you in a little in her life but thats the other way around. You are probing to see if you are compatible.
Another way that i like is ...
M:hi
H:hi
2 second pause
M: your pretty
H: she blush
Here, if she doesnt blush, like she know she pretty, that might mean you aim a little to high for your skills but that dont mean that it should stop you. You can look intensly in her mouth and tell her that there is something there, while pointing at your own teeth. That will throw anyone off-balance. Then will clean it away, even if there is nothing, then she gonna blush. That your in !
If you look for long term relationship or friend ect, see it like your business owner and SHE apply for a position. So you will likely ask all the question until she feel good and relax and shoot back. Thats another part in itself. Im not going there but finding way to make a boring life, like everyone 9-5 jobs life, interesting, is a feat in itself.

Another thing that make it easyer if you crazy shy like i was. You use personna. Let me explain. Few years back, i was working securtiy during whinter and i was mostly alone. I pass 95% of my time gaming and such and 5% work. It was very fun if you dont mind the lonelyness. But, during summer, i was doing security for event and such so i was always in massive crowd. Every years, i found it hard to pass from alone to really not alone. Im 2m tall and so when im in a crowd, i get tons of eyeball on me. Its not bad at all if you havent develop social-anxiety from the winter. So i use personna. I play make-believe. Early summer, i was someone else. Like i had 2-3 different personality. One of them was quite normal and in a crowd, didnt feel anxiety because...it was really me so who cares. I still kept my trait but it wasent really me... Anyway, idk if its healthy but i use it when i go looking for girls. Im not shy because it not me. I deflect anxiety and awkwardness because, those dont apply to me. Its not me.
I keep me really tight in a corner of me, protected and as time pass with the same person, my personality come out and shine.
Anyway, i hope it help you all. Happy hunting <3