Finding a flower in a garden, even if it stands out from all the others... You do not pick the flower, you let it grow and mature. All you can do is admire it from a distance and hope they continue to blossom..
You may want to pick it and try to keep it for your own, but taking the delicate balance and placing your grasp firmly around the rose not only gets you impaled, but you break her from her roots that kept her sustaining stability. Thorns now deeply embedded and though those little punctures may only hurt for a little bit, and her beauty distracts you from the pain, she's slowly dying. She needs good soil to prosper once more; someone good to keep her on her feet. Water her spirit with words of encouragement, to shine light on her beauty and feed her your love and devotion.