So I've rediscovered my travel bug. I have always loved to travel, and road trips during college have always been fond memories for me. But living with the ex was always so steeped in drama that I never really got to go anywhere, save the occasional trip to door county. Then with the little one entering the picture, it became even harder (up until recently; now she's rather easy to manage). After talking to one of my long lost friends, she keeps talking about places that she would like to see, and I've realized that getting in a car and going someplace seems like a damn good idea. I've decided that once it gets warmer, and obviously car permitting, I want to get my ass out there and travel places. Even if it's only a couple of days out, it's still something. So if anyone of my friends near-ish to me want to join, let me know. It's always better to travel with someone than alone.
Other than that, there's not much to report. Lack of funding has forced me into sobriety somewhat. I suppose this is good for me. I definitely get into moods where I want to drink lately, and I think not indulging in that will pay dividends down the road. I do hope to be able to have enough after this last round of bills to at least go out once in a while. Most of my friends gravitate to our favorite bar, so being able to have a drink or two when out helps with the whole social scene.
I'm also looking forward to being able to fund the reemergence of my music collection. Like many hobbies of mine, this got put on a back burner during the marriage, and I really want to get it going again. Even if it's only one or two new albums a week, at least it would be putting me back on track with something I love. There was a time when I was able to recommend dozens of good bands to people looking to expand their tastes. Now I struggle to remember what I even used to listen to. This just isn't me, and it's something that's going to have to change. I love music. It's a passion of mine. And one of my overall vows is to get back to the roots of who I am as a person and to indulge in that.
But yeah, that's the latest synopsis of the life of Nick.
Other than that, there's not much to report. Lack of funding has forced me into sobriety somewhat. I suppose this is good for me. I definitely get into moods where I want to drink lately, and I think not indulging in that will pay dividends down the road. I do hope to be able to have enough after this last round of bills to at least go out once in a while. Most of my friends gravitate to our favorite bar, so being able to have a drink or two when out helps with the whole social scene.
I'm also looking forward to being able to fund the reemergence of my music collection. Like many hobbies of mine, this got put on a back burner during the marriage, and I really want to get it going again. Even if it's only one or two new albums a week, at least it would be putting me back on track with something I love. There was a time when I was able to recommend dozens of good bands to people looking to expand their tastes. Now I struggle to remember what I even used to listen to. This just isn't me, and it's something that's going to have to change. I love music. It's a passion of mine. And one of my overall vows is to get back to the roots of who I am as a person and to indulge in that.
But yeah, that's the latest synopsis of the life of Nick.
heartbaker:
Traveling is always good. I'm trying to get out more this year too
noreins:
Well I'm glad you are getting back into things you enjoy most. It's a shame that you had to put it on hold. I'm glad you are taking this in a positive experience and using it to find yourself again. Hang in there.