hello miss treacle, i am a little late here but as adam will tell you i'm shite at updating... and late or not, my sentiments are indeed heartfelt. i am just so sorry to hear about your friend dirk... very unfortunately i have much experience in funerals of friends and i wish you all the love and hugs and condolences in the world.... only time will heal, and even so, there will always be a gap. i hope you had a lovely birthday despite everything... my birthday was just a couple of weeks ago-- we cancers need to stick together you know!
lots of love to you honey!