So..it's official...my sister is becoming a nun. She leaves for Dover, Delaware in the end of September. She told me and the rest of my siblings and my husband the news yesterday. I cried for hours. I mean, I'm cool with it just as long as she really wants to do this. But, what bothered me is that told me and my siblings that she was doing it for us.
I want her to do it for herself and no one else. So, yea, I'm a little worried.
Yesterday, I also found out that when my mom finds a new place, my dad will basically be homeless. You see, my parents are divorced and they still live under the same roof. My mom has been looking for a new place and when she does she doesn't want my dad to follow, which is understandable. He doesn't work and only has family in the Philippines. My husband wouldn't let me take him in because of what he done to me (he was physically and mentally abusive). My siblings will be staying with my mom. So, yea, I'm worried for him.
So, I cried and cried. Chain smoked and drank. And I'm feeling shitty today.
Sorry, I just really needed to vent.
I want her to do it for herself and no one else. So, yea, I'm a little worried.
Yesterday, I also found out that when my mom finds a new place, my dad will basically be homeless. You see, my parents are divorced and they still live under the same roof. My mom has been looking for a new place and when she does she doesn't want my dad to follow, which is understandable. He doesn't work and only has family in the Philippines. My husband wouldn't let me take him in because of what he done to me (he was physically and mentally abusive). My siblings will be staying with my mom. So, yea, I'm worried for him.
So, I cried and cried. Chain smoked and drank. And I'm feeling shitty today.
Sorry, I just really needed to vent.
Hope your dad will be okay. My mum's between homes too, has been for about a year now and is too proud to stay with anyone, it makes me worry so much. But she'll comean visit and I just make excuses for her to stay longer.
As for my dad, I worry for him the most. At least for my sister, if she decides not to be a nun, she'll be writing a new chapter in her life. But my dad, I don't what gonna happen. And I can't seem to stop crying.