****AS POSTED IN THE BARTENDERS GROUP****AS A MOTHER WITH EXPERIENCE IN BARTENDING,ITS NOT WHAT THE PERSON LOOKS LIKE,ITS ABOUT YOUR REGULARS..I HAVE BEEN IN THE SERVING BUSINESS SINCE I WAS ABLE TO WORK..SINCE I WAS 15..ALTHOUGH I DONT REALLY CARE TO MAKE FRIENDS OR GET TO KNOW PEOPLE,I HAVE ALWAYS CHOSEN WAITRESSING,COCKTAILING AND BAR-BACKING..A LOT OF TIMES IT HAS TO DO WITH THE REGULARS..OTHER TIMES WE TEND TO IGNORE OTHER CUSTOMERS ,NOT BECAUSE WE MEAN OR TRY TO, ITS BECAUSE WE ARE SO CAUGHT UP IN TRYING TO MAKE THE CUTOMERS WHO HAVE ALREADY ORDERED SATISFIED..ALSO, ON THAT NOTE THERE ARE A LOT OF DRUNKS WHO NEED TO SLOW DOWN AND PACE THEMSELVES..THEY WOULDNT GET CUT OFF IF THAT WAS THE CASE..PEOPLE EXPECT TO GET SERVED RIGHT THEN AND THERE,BUT WHEN YOU HAVE AT LEAST 20 OTHER ORDERS AHEAD, AND YOU ARE THE ONLY BARTENDER, IT DOESNT MATTER HOW QUICK YOU ARE,YOU CANT PLEASE EVERYONE..EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN PERSONALITY AND OPINION, AND THEY ARE NOT AFRAID TO BE RUDE OR SHOW IT..MOST ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE ALREADY INTOXICATED..OUR GENERATION, AND ALL AFTER NEED TO REALIZE THAT PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE..A LOT COMES FROM HAVING IT..NO MATTER HOW HARD IT IS TO CONTROL YOURSELF, WE NEED TO..HOW CAN WE TEACH OUR CHILDREN SOMETHING, IF WE DONT DO OR PRACTICE IT OURSELVES..MANKIND IS NOTHING BUT A BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES..I AM,ON OCCASSION MYSELF..TRUST ME..IM LEARNING THE HARD WAY..