So I was online earlier and I was scrolling through my follower's pages and I came across a friend's page who posted a blog about how she was being mistreated and harassed by another model on the site here and off site as well. I was shocked to hear that a model who was always so kind and supportive of my page was secretly an alleged monster off site and posting horrible things about this other model who's blog post I am seeing and reading this all in. Now the model that posted this blog has always been kind to me but there's now this looming doubt I have that any of what she says is even true when she addresses anyone.
So, at this point, the gloves are coming off. I hope that people who know me well enough through our conversations on site and off will realize this is fucked and do the right thing too knowing I have a code of ethics and at the top of that list is, don't abuse power over people but especially people you call friend or fellow person trying to make it in a business where this type of despicable behavior can ruin someone whom has done NOTHING wrong. I am absolutely sickened by myself for believing this person's lies and not hearing the flip side of this story before making the decision I made which in all honesty, was a grave error and mistake on my part. I feel cheated and I feel angry for those that have been assaulted online and in the real world by this person and this shit has to stop now. I would also like to address the fact that some might say: "Oh you're only doing this because you feel dumb for believing the person without verifying the integrity of the post first." To that I say, you're damn right I feel stupid as hell for that and yes, that's part of why this is being written. The other part is because even though I am one person, I helped this twisted person achieve her goal of tanking another model and her chances of success by unfollowing and blocking the model that was posted about. If any of you want proof beyond what I say here, by all means message me and I'll send you the screenshots of what I've been told by the affected party and by the party lying about this situation too. I have no problem offering myself up to ridicule from those that will still choose to continue defending the offending party involved and all I can say to that is, I could care less what you say, do or think you've found out about me. I am an open book and anything of mine on the internet is fair game to the trolls but I will always stand by what I've done online and have NOTHING to hide. So if you're going to keep your head up your ass and believe this person no matter what, by all means, have at it.
So I find it super disturbing that someone can wield so much power in a region of the world where the women who model are a mostly tight knit group and I'm sure some of them on the offending party's side will become pissed at me and try to defend this model or attack me personally and/or block me. That's totally fine because if you're fine with your "friend" getting over on other women from your region due to her "clout" on this site and in that region's collective of models and photographers, then you're certainly not someone I need support or friendship from anyway. I don't like that this blog has to even be made but I fucked up in my minor way and helped almost destroy another wonderful model's career based on what this other model posted. I've been cryptic (sort of) up to this point but I'm sure some of you know who I am talking about just based on what I've alluded to already in this post. But let's be clear here for a moment, I messaged the offending model since we've talked numerous times before as to whether or not she could explain this all to me and either deny that this photo was doctored or to just tell the truth and admit to it. I know the latter will never happen most likely so I'm not holding my breath. Another model tried to be amicable in her own tribulations with this offending model and posted a blog asking for there to be an end to the in fighting and a "truce" of sorts and that fell on deaf ears (offending model and her paramour). So in the end, they won't admit to anything but if we can boycott her work and her boyfriend's photography we'll be doing a service to those that have been bullied, destroyed and shaken down for extra money when they didn't deserve any among other despicable things they've said and done in private here on site and off site which, the off site stuff we can't do anything about unfortunately. The on site stuff though and the bullying I've been let in on by numerous models and members that have had run ins with this model and/or her paramour, that shit we CAN do something about.
I'm not about starting shit ever. Those of you who come to my page on the regular know I'm a laid back musician who likes getting along with anyone and everyone as long as those persons aren't some type of asshole. If that did happen, I certainly wouldn't blog about it like this and it would be dealt with privately if at all. But this shit, no. Hell no! This model is exploiting the talent, beauty and work of others on site and that isn't normal circumstances to handle privately. Even though I tried to talk to this model privately about this information I now have and didn't get even a peep out of her.
So I will drop the tag of the offending person's name and let the chips fall where they may. If you decide to unfollow or block me because you think what I'm doing is overkill or somehow unfair to the offending party, well maybe you shouldn't be on my page then. I hope that's not the case with my followers but I'm so furious about this that if that is what happens, so be it. So, if you're a good person and you know that I'm always supportive, please follow me in boycotting, blocking and never listening to this person and their paramour. As I stated earlier, if you need more proof of what I'm saying here cryptically, I will be more than glad to show you the things I've been told and by numerous parties that all verify the same behavior in one way or another. I can do so without any of the people whom didn't want to be dragged into another problem with this person from being identified in the public space and some names I won't reveal in private either. Only those that gave express written consent for me to do so.
So, time to come clean on who this sort of "mystery" person is spreading lies, manufacturing false evidence against innocents and ruling her region's output of creativity with an iron fist.
@leetattar would you care to respond? Or will you not answer and explain? News flash, if you don't respond, you look just as guilty as if you had the guts to just admit to your improper behavior? I know I was on your side and you've done nothing directly to me but this is straight up bullshit and you need to explain and if not, I hope you lose way more followers and get boycotted against by others too. I've spent too much time on this drama that you've created and it's tainted my feelings about the site and blossomed a thought in my head that those with major influence on site really do dictate who makes it and who doesn't.
That's it for this blog post. I await your reply eagerly and am also ready for any hate directed my way by your followers and models that are your friends in your region as well as models from other regions that don't know anything about what has been happening and feel the need to defend you.