My safe zone just resently died. Not in a literal sense, but more figuratively. I used to go to my local gay bar with all of my wonderful lesbian friends, and it was to serve three major purposes. The first being I new the DJ, and it was the only time we had any real time to talk anymore, and that hasn't changed. We now work together in our dayjobs, but we enjoy the company of eachother. The second reason was that they had a a bartender that could make a quality drink. That also has not changed. The change happened in my no perv zone that I had.
Going to a gay bar with nothing, but a large assortment of lesbains had a great reaction to keep the random freaks, and pervs from approaching me, and it was a sound logic for two reasons. The few straight women there wouldn't cross my sexual boundries because they would assume that I'm gay. They would leave me to my party, and not even question the idea. The men that would attempt to talk to me would also be put off the hordes of butch cuts, mohawks, and flannel shirts, and not want to approach me.
It was a good plan, a solid plan, but in recent history it just seemed to bring a much more aggressive flock over. If it isn't some woman whom I haven't even gotten their name, and aren't even the least bit attractive to me molesting the piss out of me, and invading my sexual space, it is some middle aged, fat, dirty guy attempting to touch me, and normally on my face. I have space issues. I also have sexual boundry issues.
I'm not a horribly sexual person besides being signed up with this alt site, but to be honest I'm doing this because my closest friend got excepted as a model (in record time as well. Six hours after applying). This was more, or less a way of supporting her (dispite the fact that she is taking her sweet time signing up). I just don't know what makes people think it is ok to get handsy with someone they don't know.
I guess I'm done with my rant, and my bitch of the day.
Going to a gay bar with nothing, but a large assortment of lesbains had a great reaction to keep the random freaks, and pervs from approaching me, and it was a sound logic for two reasons. The few straight women there wouldn't cross my sexual boundries because they would assume that I'm gay. They would leave me to my party, and not even question the idea. The men that would attempt to talk to me would also be put off the hordes of butch cuts, mohawks, and flannel shirts, and not want to approach me.
It was a good plan, a solid plan, but in recent history it just seemed to bring a much more aggressive flock over. If it isn't some woman whom I haven't even gotten their name, and aren't even the least bit attractive to me molesting the piss out of me, and invading my sexual space, it is some middle aged, fat, dirty guy attempting to touch me, and normally on my face. I have space issues. I also have sexual boundry issues.
I'm not a horribly sexual person besides being signed up with this alt site, but to be honest I'm doing this because my closest friend got excepted as a model (in record time as well. Six hours after applying). This was more, or less a way of supporting her (dispite the fact that she is taking her sweet time signing up). I just don't know what makes people think it is ok to get handsy with someone they don't know.
I guess I'm done with my rant, and my bitch of the day.