2020... it has to be better than last year, a year full of adversity, realizing that your nearly 20 year marriage was crumbling down and eventually divorce. I discovered that I had lost who I was in that 20 years somehow, now that I’m on the outside looking in I see that I had put everything that I had into this person and disconnected from the world around me. So as I try and find who I am now if I can give one word of advice... don’t lose who you are in a relationship it will end up biting you in the ass!! So here’s to a happy healthy and self discovering 2020