Ugh.

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So once again, friends and followers, my apologies for not writing for a while.

This month has been extraordinarily terrible. Not only was I reeling from the still-fresh shock of one of my best friend's mother's death, but this past Sunday, my best best friend, my Soulmate...her boyfriend died.

He was in a motorcycle accident, struck by a driver who was texting. He was hit...
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jsecure:
That's an absolute ton to deal with. I know what you mean about life. I always assumed my uncle would be there, and then so suddenly he was gone. I went on two holidays this year - I've definitely adjusted to living a bit more. I have a new sense that there isn't always a tomorrow...

Being absentee.

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So, I just wanted to apologize for being rather lacking on keeping everything updated on here.

My two best friends have had the SHITTIEST couple of weeks and I've been doing my best to try and be their rock. One's boyfriend (let's call him D) cheated on her...with an underage girl. The other - her mom passed away last week and there are things that...
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jsecure:
I'm glad things are coming together for you... I have to say, lousy abusive boyfriends... I'm used to it by now. That's what the people want. Heck; give anyone a choice between someone decent and someone cute... Let's just say by the time you hit your thirties you actually have seen pretty much everything and you know how the game works. I don't like dud boyfriends. But when I see them now, and the girls who choose them moaning about them... I just look at the ground with resignation. I'm like King Canute. I can't stop the tide from coming in...
karlboud88:
I hope things get better 💕 life is hard but it's worth the fight

I don't think you understand how much I love this.

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This is almost exactly what my ex-girlfriend and I went through. This is so important to me and I'm just emotional rn.

Plus, these girls are hot af.

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kafrickinboom:
@jsecure Did you watch the video? lol She and the other girl had been dancing around one another thrifty the whole thing while the other girl's boyfriend was an alcoholic, had a violent temper, etc. He goes off on the other girl when he catches her almost kiss her friend. The girl with the cuts on her face was thrown into a rock. And then she whooped his ass. It was sad and great at the same time. I also think everyone should live who they live without fear or judgment. I'm pansexual, so I love a little of every gender lol.
jsecure:
Yeah the two girls like each other; let them be together I say :)

Teaching myself asl is a struggle without people to practice with.

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jsecure:
It's actually a pretty handy language to learn. Me and my mates talked about it back in Uni - imagine you're in a club and you want something, and your mate is at the bar. Bit of sign language, and you're sorted, no matter how loud the music :)
kafrickinboom:
Right? That's part of why I want to learn with other people. Not only could I talk to people who are hoh or deaf, but it'd be fantastic to communicate without having to yell across the room. Or to have a semi-private conversation without the people around you hearing it lol.

When at the bar...

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Why do women intimidate me? They're so beautiful and soft and perfect, but I can't seem to work up the nerve to talk to them. Maybe I'm terrified that she'll be straight and freak out about getting hit on? Maybe my confidence just isn't high enough? *sigh* The struggle is real for me, folks, and I don't know what to do to fix it lol.

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jsecure:
Yeah me too :) I can't believe the number of "interesting" first messages I've sent out that never get read / responded to. Some were good. Real Shakespeare stuff. Those ladies are missing out - if only for the cheesy messages :) 
kafrickinboom:
Lol Shakespeare messages are entertaining, but they can be off-putting to some girls. 

Please watch and bask in the feels with me.

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Have you ever watched something and desperately wanted someone to revel in the feelings with you?

I feel like I feel things more intensely than others. I'm passionate about things that only come up as a blip in someone's radar. I feel almost frantic with the need to connect with people who feel as passionately about things as I do.

These two had a passionate...
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karlboud88:
She's freaky 😛
kafrickinboom:
She's intense. Her art is profound. 

I genuinely want to experience a fricking cheeky nandos.

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zandros:
All disappointing I'm afraid hun. Mad max was a 5/10 probably because I loved the original 3 and the best part about nandos was the very tight jeans and pert bottoms of two of that waitresses. Fortunately my wif and I cold both appreciate them 😉 As for the food, if you have some chicken, an oven and some hot sause you could make nicer at home. Oh yeh, the sweet corn was good lol 
kafrickinboom:
Damn. I'd actually heard a lot of people liked the Mad Max movies. I can't say I've seen the originals though... lol Tight jeans and pert asses can definitely be a serious plus for any restaurant tbh. But that sucks that it didn't live up to the hype. I still want to give it a go myself sometime lol @zandros
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