Everybody you allow to change your life is one more person that controls it. You lose who you are when you allow others to impact you. You start to mold into them, and eventually you take on so many new personalities, that you completely lose your individuality, you become not just worthless but a clone of those who set out to change you. Don't let others affect the decisions you make in your life. Live for you, be yourself, and be happy with that.
avaadora:
so very true, you speak the truth my friend