What is it about some people that are way too old to be kids, but they'll never be adults? I got to spend some time tonight with an old friend for his birthday. Without outing him too much, he's a touch closer to 40 than he is to 30 and seems to want to stay living as a child. He can't or won't get a job, insists on going out drinking damn near every night of the week, is constantly "working" on a new girl about every time I hear from him, and has recently graduated from living in the basement of one of his friends places with the cats he's allergic to, to an extra bedroom upstairs that was given to him only because his friend's girlfriend got a wee bit pissed and left. I can't imagine wanting to bring a girl home from the bar to a pity pad and then expecting that she'll stick around for longer than ten minutes after realizing that "hey..I'm his new source of income for the week". Seriously...man the frick up or surrender your guy card, immediately!