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I've never written one of these so here it goes.

Ok let me start by saying that I've been single for 4067 days or 11 years 1 month and 20 days . I know damn .

Let me say that I've tried to get a girlfriend but I'm shy so any girl I like I can't talk to . Now if I know I don't...
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merovie:
First off, find some common ground. What are you into? (I don't mean kink wise.) Find out if a girl is into some of the same things. As a goth and industrial kid with a sick sense of humor and interest in nerd shit like graphic novels, it wasn't hard (In New Orleans at least) to find nerdy goth girls I had something in common with, such as music, strange and obscure films, comics, and truly dark and sick humor.
matterz:
Think the internet is a great place for this as you can talk to people without the stress and pressure of meeting face to face stright off the bat. Id suggest looking at it as trying to get to know something about someone, and dont put the pressure of 'how do i get them to like me'. I know when i thought about it that way it made it easier to relax.