A bit of a problem.
So me and my girlfriend have been together for the second time for about 4 months now and i recently just caught her texting her ex messages like "i miss you and i wish you could be here in bed with me", and "i want to kiss you all over and shit like that". and she is pissed at me for looking at her text messages. we had plans to move in together and all this sort of stuff,but i called them off due to this delima. i just don't understand why some one would do this this if they say they love you,and now its really hard to trust her now cause of it.
and i do admit i get a little jealous at times.
but i would never do anything like that to her
So ladies or just anyone in that case i need help on how to deal with it and what to do cause she has put me in a position saying that if i ever bring it up again that it is over. and i don't know how the hell this happened cause then it makes me have to forgive her even tho i don't.
So any help or suggestions would be great.
Christopher
So me and my girlfriend have been together for the second time for about 4 months now and i recently just caught her texting her ex messages like "i miss you and i wish you could be here in bed with me", and "i want to kiss you all over and shit like that". and she is pissed at me for looking at her text messages. we had plans to move in together and all this sort of stuff,but i called them off due to this delima. i just don't understand why some one would do this this if they say they love you,and now its really hard to trust her now cause of it.
and i do admit i get a little jealous at times.
but i would never do anything like that to her
So ladies or just anyone in that case i need help on how to deal with it and what to do cause she has put me in a position saying that if i ever bring it up again that it is over. and i don't know how the hell this happened cause then it makes me have to forgive her even tho i don't.
So any help or suggestions would be great.
Christopher
lymphae:
I sooo would not forgive her. She has been totally sketchy and deceitful. I would drop her like a bad habit, if you don't have trust you have nothing.