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I was going to comment on a video I saw a couple of years ago in respect to your involvement with the community but my memory is a little off. It had to do with LGBT politics - I think. And weather or not women involved in same-sex kissing and media were doing it as a alluring think to turn men on? And if such acts are not so much a same sex attraction in as much as being a rejection of masculinity in terms of where a women as at in relation to culture - and whether she simply doesn't want to be involved in a relationship in a way that is pre-defined by cultural norms. ... a complicated idea perhaps ... but maybe relevant. If nobody gets hurt.. ..and it's a harmless exploration.. cool. If somebody who is internally "straight" but involved with a women who has as similar mindset - is it dangerous for them to advocate as being "gay" when they may not be 100% sure. They are simply not at all afraid of being perceived as having an orientation - either way. Just some thoughts. It's hard for straight men to advocate for the LGBT community. I have straight people problems - and often I have straight guy issues and biases projected onto me - in situations where they don't make sense.  I suppose I get upset when I see two women trying to seduce me - or men I knew - doing such things - at the expense of truly understanding LGBT rights. Those statements may be off - but I hope the logic makes sense. @sash @missy @jessicalou @phecda @rambo