zafrina

It's snowing over there? We are under a 3 to 6 inch winter storm warning here.

Was already on the slopes on Sunday...happy happy joy joy.

rough but soft but rough... lol

i like cacoons

thats the best wish ever

I didn't know your roomie was a deadbeat! Want me to take care of it?

that's hella cold! it used to get into the single digits here when i was a kid. but now there's a good chance christmas day might be shorts weather... ya never know. good luck with keeping you bad thoughts at bay. there seems to be a lot of stress these days. i was in a funk but i think i'm on an upswing.

It's actually snowing here. The opposite coast, but still.

Santa delivered snow on the East Coast, wish I could send you some!

We all want a good romantic relationship of course, but even in the absence of that, it's gratifying to have one or more people to love just because they're wonderful and we're thrilled to have them in our lives. We're all equipped for this since we generally love our parents and siblings in just that way. BTW, I define love as feeling great when we see the other person happy. This is nice because we can remain close to nieces and nephews or friends indefinitely, even if we couldn't get along trying to live with them, and age differences aren't necessarily a barrier in these sorts of relationships. It does beat having only disappointment and cats, not that I'm knocking cats, you understand.

The holidays suck no matter what in my opinion

Take care of you

Serious injury perhaps, but not death. At least not usually.

Parents can be anything but easy to get along with. It's a lot easier to forgive their flaws if it becomes evident that they had good intentions and were motivated by love. It's sometimes amazing how how abusive parents can be when they're trying to be helpful, as they see it.

We can all learn some improved communication skills and set people off less frequently as time goes by, so things will probably improve in the future. If your mother has a shred of normalcy then being away from you will be very painful for her. Good luck.

Happy Thanksgiving!

That's crap! It's just a ploy to slowly get people to stop smoking. Just like raising the prices on smokes as well. Oh well, I will pay any price for a good stogie.

There's always a good time for DnB...not just tripping

I know it's not always easy to remember that the hard times are transient. But this is just one moment in time... a challenge for you to face down and surpass. You'll do it. I have no doubt. One step at a time. Before you know it, you'll be looking back at this time and smiling at how amazingly you managed it.

I got no self help stuff. Just a good luck.