Final Blog

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I have been here a long while and it feels strange leaving. I feel like Suicide Girls left me though. Clearly Suicide Girls decided it had to change everything about itself that I had grown to love. Yes, of course the same women are still here...or at least many of them are. However, the new brand that Suicide Girls wants to be is just the...
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marinna:
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Goodbye to My Friends

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Goodbye to all my good friends on here!

I am soon to have used up my last year. I've enjoyed my long history with this site for a decade now. I have gotten my closest friends to join and met people from this site in real life on several occasions. It seems a real shame that what I felt made it really special has been...
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kittywu:
Oh dear, so sad to read that you are leaving soon.I´m glad to get the chance to meet you thru sg, I know everything on this site is different and changes are difficult to accept. I miss so many options on this site and that are already gone, sad, but I guess it´s part of the evolution for the site. You surely will be missed, we need more awesome people like you and it´s sad to hear you will be gone, hope you can return but totally respect your decition. Take care and always will wish you the best for you!!! 
xsntt:
It has always been a pleasure being your friend, KittyWu!

Is there any excuse for why there are no Suicide Girls on the front p…

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UPDATED AND EDITED: I am more than a little confused why this blog has suddenly been garnering criticism after being ignored since two and a half months ago, but whatever. The point of what I wrote below is very clear, but if it somehow doesn't get across the way it was intended then just READ THIS CLARIFICATION. I am criticizing the Suicide Girls site for...
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xsntt:
What in the world got everyone thinking I was talking about what kind of body type I like?!  Is there a problem with me saying I LIKE variety, and I don't just want to see one body type?  I have read over what I said and I still don't think I am talking about what I PERSONALLY want to see.  Why is this blog suddenly drawing responses when it sat ignored for months and within a week of my account closing now I have all these responses?  I am not discriminating.  I have my opinion of what looks good, but what bothers me is this site not presenting a mix of people.  YOU are a lovely girl, Sid, and I am not in any way discriminating against your body type.  Most of my girlfriends have been your body type.  Is there something wrong with me also liking to see heavier women represented?  I like BOTH!!  I think you need to re-read what I wrote and if you still think I am gross then you are just a name-calling asshole.
xsntt:
Really?  So no more responses from Sid and Dot?  I guess you really are just here to be dramatic an stir up shit then...I went to a lot of trouble to respond to what you said, but it wasn't about that.  You just wanted to make a big stink and then take off to the next drama queen convention...

Well, after a decade on this site I have deleted my account...

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I will let my account run out because I paid for a year before I knew they would be ruining it. It seems SG and I have gone different ways. I am not into flashy magazine style photos, and models who look just like every other site. I remember when this place was alternative and edgy. It seems almost planned that they lost that with...
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noel:
It sucks to read another member feels this way, but even as an SG I completely understand & agree! 
xsntt:
Thank you so much, Noel!  You agreement means a lot to me.  It is pretty sad to feel so powerless, but it is clear my opinion means nothing to the owners of this site.  I have posted all over and had no response at all.  It shows when a company has no respect for their longest standing customers.  I am going and I sincerely hope to give others reason to come with me.

The New Site (Hate and Disruption in the Force)

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I'm thinking of deleting my account. What gave this site personality was just dumped in the trash. When you are a nudity site that specializes in NOT being just porn, what really matters is a feeling of refinement about the website...The feeling that the seemingly Victorian parlor wallpaper backdrop created all these years. Now we have what?! A pathetic white gradient?! What we had was...
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xsntt:
Thanks, Patrona!  I really appreciate you feel the same way about the originality of the site.
xsntt:
This new site is garbage.

Tuesday Oct 01, 2013

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So I met this waitress...

And mind you, I don't pick up girls much. Actually, by "much" I mean "never."

I was out with some railroad buddies, and railroaders are as bad as sailors when you get them around women. Fortunately, as everyone has told me (including this waitress), I am a gentleman.

So I see this unbelievably hot waitress who is so charming and...
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trebble:
I don't know what you're refferring to about the new site limiting anything.... those were just photos I uploaded for fun - not a set..
xsntt:
No, Trebble, just the way the site has made finding some things awkward (not just because I am not used to it yet, but legitimately hard to find) and there seem to be no more hopeful sets or member review sets, and everything that I feel really WORKED about the old site is absent now.  A lot of people are annoyed and I think it is justified. Everything is too "in your face" with this site now, and it is actually hard to get lost a little.  Much of the feeling of the site is gone and I won't pretend I like it.  I am giving it a chance, but I may well not renew.

Sunday Sep 22, 2013

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So I'm back to dating life. I guess this is the downside of my hoping I could share my enjoyment of other women with my girlfriend. We now are firmly broken up. It was her decision, and not mine, but she did let me know she wanted me to avoid being with anyone else if I wanted to fight for our relationship. I took this...
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machsnicht:
Cant wait to hear about your trip to Southern California!ooo aaa
xsntt:
Well, good to hear from you, Machschnell, ha! Southern California was not as hot (both literally and figuratively) as I had hoped it would be. The situation was sort of uncomfortable and I learned some things about polyamory that I hadn't really hoped to learn. We should discuss it more in person...whenever you have time. I have some other wonderful news for you though, so we really should meet up.

Friday Sep 06, 2013

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My girlfriend thinks I am "obsessed with women" because I am on SG. She is "disgusted" with me for wanting to enjoy the beauty of women other than her. I realize I am treading on thin ice here with her, but can we all agree SG is not a bad thing and it should not force couples to break up?!! I feel I can be...
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jungla:
I know sometimes some people dont understand abut the page and everything, just try to talk to her, teach her the page and maybe she can participate in the site also!
Thank you for your love babe, u are amazing, besos smile
xsntt:
Beso me mucho, Jungla! I did try to make her understand, but we are now pretty much split up. I love her the same as I always did, but when trust is gone, love can't mean anything. All I can do is just allow her to decide to trust me again in the future possibly...but for now we are not together anymore.whatever

Thursday Aug 29, 2013

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So here is a question: What is the deal with girls being catty?

Keep in mind that I am male and that I am also an Anthropology major so I am not stupid about this and I have the capacity to understand how this kind of catty behavior works, but I really have not had anyone tell me anything that is not already inherently obvious...For...
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xsntt:
Thank you, sincerely, Abbikitti! I try!! I kinda hope women in this century come up with a more pragmatic approach to competition. I feel like the classic expectations of society have changed dramatically, but the behavior associated with competition have remained the same. Guys still get in moronic bar fights and women are still catty, for reasons I have trouble understanding. Competition is a fact of life, but some competition is a good thing and productive of results. Cattiness is normally a dead end, in my experience.

Wait, Trills...Am I to get from this that you are cooking cats? -And worse still, you are using pre-packaged crap to cook it with?! -Jeez, use a pre-made vegetable broth at least!!

I'm all for staying connected to your food though. I have been doing a much better job of that lately. I feel this has gotten slightly confusing though. I need to go see what you are responding to...

Society is very disconnected though, and Alice is a good example of a protagonist for our times!!
xsntt:
Ah, Trills cooking korma from scratch!! Impressive!! I feel totally how you do about pre-packaged food and I have been very good about cooking for myself lately.

As to defining yourself, I really have begun to do that too more, but combined with a really happy sense of settling into myself at last. I am just at the age I can be glad to be set in some of my ways. I'm not too old nor too young, and I am very positive about who I am for the first time in some time, to this extent anyway. Sometimes it is just pleasurable to really be yourself! Experience life from your unique perspective! Society IS disconnected and never more than now. Entropy applies to human culture just as it does to subatomic particles!! You aren't fruity, just right. Love yourself and know we can all love you more when you do!!

Wednesday Aug 28, 2013

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Ahhh, you know I got out and I feel better than last post. Sometimes it is obvious you just need a break. I went and soaked in the springs up North for a day, then I drove down the wonderful California coast all today. I can't believe how rare roads above the crashing ocean are like this...I went to Australia a few years ago and...
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xsntt:
Oh, good one Trills!!! I would LOVE to go to Iceland. I guess the next question would be, "How the heck can I find an affordable trip to Iceland?" I would go there this year or next if I thought I could get a good deal. When I went to Australia, the price was so low it was almost criminal. I went there for $640 ROUND TRIP ("return," as they say in the UK). I need a similar deal to get to Iceland. It is on my top five list of places to go in the world though. Clever plan, hot stuff!kiss
abbikitti:
me too. Ive just been working and looking for new ways to make more money lol. Im really tight on cash :/

Saturday Aug 24, 2013

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I'm feeling stressed out as the summer wanes, but thank God that around here the sun is out again. It was beginning to feel like Fall was eclipsing Summer at an alarming pace. I am going to some Hot Springs up in Northern California to relax. I have a list of about ten major things I have to accomplish in the next month, none of...
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raveneffect32:
Hey, thanks for the advice. I'll make sure I check those sites out. Not really a nudist but definitely looking to meet some easy going people. Don't really know a whole lot of people around the island
xsntt:
Aw, well Alameda has become a much more richie rich place than when I was a kid and the Navy was here. I kinda don't like how snobbish some people can be here -even to me, and my family has lived here three generations!! Let me just say that the best places to go out are probably the Swell Bar, Forbidden Island Tiki Lounge or Lost Weekend. I sound like I drink but I really don't very much. It just seems like these are some of the best social settings to meet people on the island. Otherwise there are a bunch of stuck up people down at the beach and at South Shore. It is hard to explain, but I just notice people are harder to get to know around here too, so it is not just you. Go to the Library too, because lots of interesting people have meetings there. When I go out in the Bay Area I almost never meet people from Alameda because they seem like they keep it to themselves or don't go out in the places I do...Maybe it is just me! You will probably do a better job!

Friday Jul 26, 2013

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I am against the subjectification of women. I must objectively state that I oppose subjectifying women in all cases! A woman should be seen objectively as the object she chooses to be. She should be afforded the right of making of herself whatever object she chooses. To subjectify women is to imply that only through a biased and warped perspective can a woman be attractive,...
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machsnicht:
xsntt - thank you this cleaver post. Sometimes the best way to deal with a social problem is by turning it on it's head and exposing the ridiculous. The term "objectification" has become rhetoric. The problem with rhetoric is that it allows a concept to be accepted without being understood. People need to understand the social problem of objectification. I think your post is very intelligent and you have opened this "subject" for further discussion.
xsntt:
Thanks so much, Mach! I'm glad you understood my angle on the whole thing. Yeah, there are too many buzz words and phrases we are taught not to question. I feel like this whole site questions the media image of what is attractive...Why not question what it means to be attractive?!! Why not question why people cannot CHOOSE to objectify themselves?! Maybe that is what turns them on. It doesn't mean you are NOTHING MORE than an object; it simply means that you are proud and able to enjoy being able to be seen from that perspective. Personally I LOVE it when my girlfriend objectifies me. I would like nothing more than to be the object of her desire. I don't want her thinking it is a subjective love she has for me. We are objectively best for each other!!!
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