- hygiene
*i see so many disheveled and messy guys. you like girls that smell good, are nicely put together, and pretty? well, i don't know any women who don't put themselves together in a way to attract what they're looking for. there's nothing worse to me than guys with poor oral hygiene. seriously, i take good care of myself and you're not putting your dirty mouth anywhere near or on me. it's just...gross. brush and wash your hair regularly, put on deodorant and there's nothing wrong with a SMALL bit of some nice cologne. ill fitting clothes can be off putting and don't really show you off in the best light. some things to consider.
- pussy vultures & poon hounds
*pursuing, banging, or dating your friends exes is skeezy and lame. there's plenty of girls out there and if you limit yourself to what ever's left over from your friend's failed relationships you have to understand it's not going to be anything of substance. not only that you'll build a reputation for being a dirty guy which limits you even more. be open and go places you normally wouldn't to expose yourself to larger groups of people. also, guys that seriously hit on and flirt with EVERY girl they encounter is creepy and off-putting. it's hard for a girl to feel like she's special or means anything when you're willing to jump on any girl that crosses your path. be a little more discerning and less desperate.
- braggarts
*if the only way you can get attention is by going on about something material, status, or physical accomplishments you're sad. you brag about money you'll get gold-digging hoes, you go on about your hook-ups then you'll get opportunistic groupies, if you're always talking about yourself or physical appearance you'll attract shallow girls who are just as insecure as you are. think about what you say and if it has any meaning to it. are you just filling up space to try to catch someone's attention? bragging about yourself is not attractive and always going there to get attention shows you're immature, self absorbed, and probably don't have much else going on. just saying.
- lack of respect
*you can't just get up in a girl's face or pressure her for a number when you don't know anything about her or you just met her. take time to actually get to know a girl to see if there's any mutual interests, if you enjoy each other's company without there being anything physical, and if it could go somewhere. everyone is so impatient and guys are always being pushy and lewd. if you act like a pig and get a girl she's probably not a lady. you're also not the first and won't be the last. if it's quick and easy then you're gonna get back what you put into it.
- not reading the room
*GUYS! STOP TRYING TO DATE, HIT ON, OR ASK OUT YOUR FEMALE FRIENDS! i don't know a single guy who seriously hasn't made things uncomfortable or compromised a friendship bc they just want to get into their female friends pants. we're not a stand by if you can't find someone and if a girl's interested she'll let you know. guys will read into every single nice thing a girl will do and make it like she's setting it up to go somewhere. it's being nice. ya know? because you're FRIENDS. then she's a bitch bc she shoots you down bc she never wanted anything like that to begin with. if you can't have female friends w/o crushing on them or trying to hook up with them then guess what, you're not mature enough for a relationship. girl's can be cryptic, but not when it comes to their affection for someone. that's not a secret unless it's for someone they shouldn't be pursuing.
seriously, consider what i've put here and i swear if you put it to use you'll start to experience things differently. xx
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hooeylewis:
I never understood why some people almost seem proud of looking like slobs in public.
drnkngpoolwater:
all true.