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I fucking hate mother's day. I shouldn't, but I do. I used to be a giant wreck for days. Now, I think I'm fine, right up to the last second, and then I fall apart. I know she's in a better place. I know she's watching over me. But I can't see her, can't say hello to her, can't hug her, can't do anything. And...
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This cracked me the fuck up. I've always like Grohl.

ilovemikehunt:
yeah! you're in la too???

where do you live in this cooky sprawling mess?
ilovemikehunt:
i agree! let's do this!

i live in echo park.

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Earthquake woke me up at 4am. Took a couple hours to get back to sleep. No major damage reported, although I did see a crack in the floor of the lobby of my building that I didn't notice before.
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How do you tell a girl "Hey, guess what? I'm not interested, so please stop trying because it's getting embarrassing for you, me, and all our friends?" without causing drama in your social circle?

Oh, and there are two of them that need to hear this message.

puke
user8935778:
I think it's better to just... tell them. Not in a bad way... just... like. "Hey, listen, I think you're cool but I think it's best we remain friends."

Below is an account of why I feel that way.... Feel free to read or ignore my ranting.

SPOILERS! (Click to view)

In this age of games and shit, I'd rather someone just tell me the truth. I have been out of the dating game so long... I just got back into it... My ex took my heart and ripped it out.. then dragged it around. Now he's living with some girl and her kid... Anyway!

I went out with a guy. Made out with him. Sent him an email the next day saying thanks.. had a great time. Why? Seemed like we had a great time. But then I was like, "Whoa.. did I just come off being crazy.. because I sent a brief email saying 'thanks for a great time'...."???

Meanwhile.. The guy emails me back.. like 3 days later. And now wants to hang out? WTF? Is this a game? I don't know. Was he really busy like he said? (in the age of iPhones... I mean he couldn't shoot me back a short email.. ..? Really?) Did he see Swingers one too many times? Does he really want to see me again? Or is he just too chicken shit to tell me no...?

Who fucking knows. I don't know what goes on in guy's minds. So that's why I try to date... more than one guy at once. Sometimes. Because. Well. That way I don't worry about just one guy. Because you can see... as above.. I can give myself my own mindfuck if I sit around and just think about someone else's thoughts other than my own without any inkling of what they're thinking. Most girls are pretty good at that.



So the long and short of it?.. Just tell them both. The truth. Because no one likes to get their head fucked. Whether it's by someone else or themselves.

And maybe your hotness is just turning these girls on too much. So tell them. You wanna be friends. Just friends. The end. Honesty is the best policy.

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I haven't had full-time employment since somewhere around the end of July, maybe early August

I just got hired as the head chef at a hotel in West Hollywood, where, 3 years ago, I was the sous chef.

It's about damn time.

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cakemix:
wohoo - it is about fucking time! x
user8935778:
Congrats broham! So that means when or if I come out west to interview for fellowship, i am expecting amazing grub. I would expect nothing lest from you! Hope you are well and had an STI free VD.
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What a show! Frank Black, David J and Kevin Haskins, Tenacious D, Kim Shattuck, Weird Al Yankovic, Flea, Ok GO, She Wants Revenge, I was blown away. What an amazing night of music!
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Ok it's been over a month since I bothered updating here ... I think this website has run its course for me. Thinking about canceling my sub. Comments?
deleteddelete:
mate, if I hadn't forgotten to switch off the auto-renew, I would have left a long time ago, Fuck it - those who count you can keep in touch with in a whole host of other ways
enne:
Aww thank you smile It's been such a quick turn around for me that I couldnt be happier smile Hows everything with you??
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Katrinaversary. 4 years ago today, Hurricane Katrina made landfall at New Orleans, and it's still all messed up down there. Don't forget ... there's still work to be done fixing things up.
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Anyone in LA want to grab lunch at Water Grill with me, like right now? smile
tubesound:
I'm in North Yorkshire. Otherwise it's a yes.
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Had a great interview last night at Raffles L'Ermitage. Cross your fingers for me.

Headed to San Fran for the weekend, early tomorrow morning.