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I must say this halloween has been a little bit fucked up so far..... Today was the last day at my job of 8 long ass years. My job is heading overseas. So I get my check and head out to a friend of mines bar to lick my wounds in peace. Instead i end up meeting somebody of the female gender... we dicussed tattoo's,...
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First my job goes overseas and now my beer.... what the fuck is going on in this country mad mad mad mad
btb4:
Usually not too exotic - I used to love Cuban Aliados, but I think they've either gone away or gone downhill. Other than that I'm mostly and Upmann guy unless something cool and different comes along.
elaine:
thanks a lot sweetheart biggrin
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Webcam knowledge needed!!!!!!

Okay, I just bought a new logitech webcam and the damn thing constatly freezes up on my whenever it is turned on. IS this normnal...please tell me its not. Is there anything I can do to remedy this situation before the webcam goes through my window???
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I'm just happy to say that after 6 long years working the graveyard shift. My ass is moving back to the more humane 1st shift. Even though my job is going to China and I could be there for another week. I'm just happy to be able to sleep at night again...Cheers skull
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Can somebody please explain to me why I have to be active in blogging and responding to the stories posted on this site to join a local SG forum. I am on this site daily but don't always have the time to talk about my boring ass day and I don't always feel the need to comment on certain stories... So why shouldn't I be...
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stirfry:
i can...

it an unwritten rule that goes back to when there were only a few hundred "active" members on the whole of SG.

1. it's to keep out lurkers.

2. because private stuff (like home addresses and where you work or hang out) gets posted and we try our best to keep out people who may have evil intentions.

3. because those groups are mainly for those who hang out and meet up in real life. see #2.

4. because owners of regional groups can set whatever rules they like as far as that group's membership policy.



however, your best bet is to write to the owner of the group, who could then answer your question (usually the effort to make contact will get you admitted by itself)... where as posting it on your journal ('blog" if you are into that word)just makes you look like a whiner, because the chances of you getting the real answer are slim... or at the very least, unlikely. as each group owner has different restrictions/requirements.

posting comments in and if itself is not the point. it's the simple fact that it shows that you DO actually want to interact with others and not just lurk.

it's like those bars that say "private - members only". when, if fact, it's just to scare away the douche bags. if you actually ring the buzzer, they will let you in. you don't "really" have to be a member, you simply have to KNOW that you don't really have to be a member, lol.

dumb? sure.
... but weeding our creepy fuckers on a porn site is far from an exact science. wink


a simple message to the owner saying... "i live in ______, but am not into posting. can i get in so i can meet people in my area"... is usually all it takes.



also, having only hot chicks as friends and such doesn't help. it looks like that's all you care about. the chicks in the l;ocal groups are more sensitive to creepiness than out in the public sections.

people having a bit of a clue as to who you are and what you are about is the main intention of the rule.

like the groups you belong to... do you mean to say that your only interest is IBTs? what about racing, tattoos, 24, guns, hippeis, playstation, macs, kids, marriage, bondage, etc...

all we know about you from the year you have been here is you like IBTs, 3 hot chicks, and complaining, lol.

wink
btb4:
There are folks who'd define any simply liking SG as "a creep" so there you go....
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So what do you do when you find out your job is going to China and the cops show up with drug dogs to sniff out your car and work locker.... any advice
_tryst_:
hey, thanks for the good wishes and thanks for the friend request!