A beautiful morning out on the deck, drinking some strong black coffee (like my soul...ha).

So an update on the last little while is due.... it's been a wild ride for a while but now things have settled into a "normal" routine.

K and I are so much better than we were, still have some issues here and there but absolutely nothing like...
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So not sure who I pissed off in a previous life but holy fuckoly I must have been one gigantic asshat!

Seriously, how does one family have this much BS following them?

Motherfucker. Rant over...

So I am currently on vacation..from work..

The reason for the question mark, well trying to help get my mother-in-law's house ready for her move at the end of the month....argh!!

All I really want to be doing is to be laying on my deck with bevvies in hand naked in the scorching heat that has arrived!!! Well and a few other...
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Hi everyone it has been a while since I have updated this... it's been quite the rollercoaster ride for a the last few months.

Negativity.... going away thankfully!

Positivity.. growing daily, my spouse and I are finally on the same page... we still have some issues to work through and whole pile of work on trust, but honestly have not been happier. My previous...
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So I still have yet to figure out where I am in my relationship with my wife. It's been a really rough road over the last few months with interspersed periods of perfect joy.

Recently we went and had some new tattoo work done, phenomenal time absolutely great. Then the booze tends to get in the way, but I promised to be better and...
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