You want to know if he's really cheating? Grab his phone and run to the bathroom, if he tries to kick the door down, he has someone else its that simple.
You're too pretty and to nice to have to deal with this, confront him about the picture, if he is cheating it's better to break up ASAP, the longer things go, the worse it gets for you and you will get even more hurt. I regret not have spoke up and not tell my ex to go fuck himself when he was an asshole to me and was acting suspicious, about 3 weeks later I pused him and found out he had started seeing someone else, he barely had the nerve to tell him, I had to get it out, before he lied to my face he had just been busy and was going to london in a few days, obviously I was the one that got hurt. But you know time heals everything and the further along the more hurt you'll be, so it's better to clear things up and do a clear break when you still can.
Anyway I hope things get better for you beautiful!
Hey, It sucks you have to deal with this kind of crap. To be honest it always shocks the hell out of me when I hear about guys lying or cheating on astonishingly beautiful women, such as yourself. And in correlation to his behavior, I can't tell you what to do, it's your life and no one should make decisions for you. That's awesome that you're thinking about going back to school, but you should be doing it for yourself, not someone else. If you think you guy is cheating/lying to you, its up to you to decide what you want to do. Any length of time with someone that you truly care about can make it harder to face those choices, and I don't envy you having to. Either way I hope it all works out for you. What little we have talked, you have always been a very sweet person, and I truly hope everything works out for the best. Just remember you clearly have people who love you, and only want the best for you.
You are WAYYY to beautiful to have to put up with that shit. I agree with ML Infidel and CandraLee, confront him and then if he tries to cover it up chuck him. Men are a dime a dozen, get one who's going to treat you like the goddess you are!
So many people are saying to do the kind of dramatic bs that only crazy girlfriends do. It is very simple, do you want to invest more time and effort on him? no matter if he is or is not cheating he IS giving you reasons to suspect him. That is disrespectful of you no matter what. Are his actions worth putting more time in to the relationship? I know it is a hard decision. Good luck with it.
You gotta clear that air. You'll feel a lot less anxious and angry once the confrontation is over. Actually knowing 'what' is going on is the most important thing right now.
Confirm what's been going on first and foremost. If it's true he's been cheating (or attempting to) then - and here comes the easy part - you drop him. I know, it doesn't seem easy, but the hard part is this: once you've dropped him, cut ties, go "cold turkey" as much as you can. That sounds so simple on page, but the reality is our lives are so interwoven it is much harder to do once set to the task. But do your best and take the high ground - as much as you'll want to publicly castrate him (or ACTUALLY castrate him, for that matter), do not do it. Better to, as much as possible, move on, and make sure he knows you've moved on to better things. Better to not waste a second more of your time in consideration of him except the times you have no choice. He'll be counting on you to pine away or come back and "try, try again." Do not. You're better than that, and he knows it - you just need to know it too.
Being the better person is tough - I know, because I've been in this situation myself (gender reversed) and it's incredibly hard to get revenge by living better, by moving on and becoming better than you are while they continue wallowing in their own fucked up decisions. It's not an instant payoff. You don't get to see their lame face, you aren't privy to the details of their grand failures. You don't get to know how their face looks after you bury your fist in it (spoiler: BETTER). But the lovely part is that after awhile, you won't care because you've moved and improved - but they most likely won't have, and word WILL eventually get back to them that you are doing great.
tl;dr - If you dump him, respect yourself by moving on, and improving your own fortunes. Don't look back to watch him wallow in his own misery and shit, but take satisfaction in the knowledge that you are the stronger, better person.
Sorry to be blunt, but if he is so eager to fool around with just 9 months of relationship, what do you think he's gonna do up ahead? I'm sure there are lots of guys that would do anything to be with a girl like you, just around the corner... Don't waste your precious time!
Confront him about it!! There's no point in beating around the bush. Don't accept excuses either. You shouldn't be lied to, he's not worth it if he can't accept you for who you are and not respect you enough to not cheat and lie.
i agree with above. If you still care confront him and ear is explain.
then if your not convinced or if he tries to denied... dump him.
@IT if someone do that with one of my gear i will be REALLY pissed off. Even if i have nothing to hide i rather dont want to be search against my will ( wich is what you suggest basicly), when someone search my gear i feel kinda rape, it's part of me.
Sounds to me like you deserve a lot better than that sweet heart. I know that my opinion carries little to no weight with you, you don't know me so that's fine, but it's obvious to me that he does not deserve you.
