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so after 23 years of being together I have been informed by my wife that she wants out. I am too blue for her, bring her down too much. she has been thinking about this for about 2 years and initially told me that we need to seek outside help to see us through this but after she met with a counsellor who advised her that she needs to be honest with me she came home and told me that she is not committed to a process and had in fact made up her mind sometime ago that she wants out. basically she is looking for an exit strategy, and like every decision she makes in a vacuum when she announces her thoughts she is looking for justification of her actions. I suppose loving someone for more than half my life, loyalty and putting up with all the BS thrown at me over the years counts for nothing