Take care of your bills, xmas shopping is a lot easier to do, just use the 'I ordered but it was out of stock, its being shipped on XX day' and gives you a lil extra time to get $ for the gifts

Hey, it's not impossible. That's been my MO for the last three years...

Hang tough, gorgeous. this, too, shall pass.

Hang in there, you can do it!

I know it's not always easy to remember that the hard times are transient. But this is just one moment in time... a challenge for you to face down and surpass. You'll do it. I have no doubt. One step at a time. Before you know it, you'll be looking back at this time and smiling at how amazingly you managed it.

I got no self help stuff. Just a good luck.