This is my first blog on here and I wish it was more positive. But someone who is supposed to be one of my best friends (going on 7 year friendship) told me last night that in order to save said friendship from imploding from living with each other for two years, I need to be the one that has to move out and start over. He asked me after our talk if we were good and if I had anything to say. Being that I was very high at the time, and for the sake of a fight, I just told him that I wasn't sure what to think or say and that we are good for the moment. But as soon as I sobered up, I woke up this morning earlier than I wanted to, and I was so angry that I couldn't fall back asleep. So bottom line is, I am the one being forced to change and start over at this not so perfect time to do so all because he wants to still be friends and be happy living with this chick who he has only known for less than a year. This truly sucks and hurts.
ekoorb_a:
Ouch, that does suck. Why can't he be the one to leave?
yogibear27:
Cause then the girl will probably leave cause me and her, while on good terms and I am just now starting to consider her a friend, just aren't as good friends as she is with my friend. Like she considers him one of her best friends and he feels the same, which is what is so frustrating. Also, if they both leave, then I basically have less than two months to find replacements and that is just gonna be a huge pain in the ass. I have been asking around and a lot of my friends are still in the middle or beginning of their current leases where they live. It is just a shitty situation all around, and while I still have a glimmer of hope that I can stay for another year, chances aren't good.