I know it's different for everybody, but I get the sense that generally it's a matter of wanting what you don't have. Some of my married friends despair when I'll tell them I'm going out to romp and have fun as a single gal. But at the same time when I am single I pine for somebody to share experiences with. I think the back-and-forth stops when you meet the right person; the one who holds your interest above everything else.

Do what your drunken heart tells you to do

i think you have got it in one! perfect deffiniton of what i feel.
its a horrible feeling though lol

I've just got to this point where I'm over my ex and I'm ready to move on with someone, but.. There is no one, because everyone was interested when I wasn't over him and couldn't do it. Ha. Now I feel a bit lonely. Not that I need to constantly be with someone, it's just lately I need a cuddle. x

I know how you feel!