No worries--I understand that you're busy, especially if you're going to school, working and going to two clubs on the weekends, that seems like an incredibly busy schedule indeed.
I've gone to a few private play parties and munches in Portland, but I have never gone to a fetish club or the like, so that might be better, as you say, to go to Dungeon first.
As far as attire goes, what is suitable for these places?
hahaha oh man thats awsome. you gotta show me the others sometime. and we need to hang out again, its been too long and not just at work obviously.
catch ya at the big T yo!!!