Neither being a nice guy nor being an asshole will get you into a happy relationship. It happens when it happens. Don't beat yourself up for being who you want to be.
I was beating up the situation. I'm happy who I am thats why when I said I should change I said no thanks.
More than anything I dislike the jerks prior to me for ruining what could be because of their inability to have a relationship with the women I met after.
Don't give up just yet!! Keep holding out for someone, because one day someone will be lucky enough to notice how awesome you are, and regardless if she's damaged, shell not let you get rejected again
