It's only cheating if it's against the rules. But of course being poly makes that more reasonable.

That is a pretty cool gig. How does he get to live travelling around?

hey, at least you are aware of yourself enough to recognize your limitations. Bully for you.

Warden!!! long time no see

sorry to hear 'bout your loneliness, but like Darke said, it's only cheating if it goes against the boundaries you two have established for yourselves... that does sound like a pretty cool job, I must say... hoping for the best. cheers