buck up camper. Because she dalied with this other guy may not mean she is in a relationship with him just horny.
Plus she told you that you need to learn to love yourself first right? It may have been honestly what she saw and felt and told you that to help your chances, or may have been a finesse way of telling you she doesnt reciprocate your feelings.
Dont read too much into encountering them, just like the saying goes "just because your paranoid doesnt mean they arent watching you."
so does its also true just because it seems like more than a coincidence, doesnt mean it wasnt just that totally random.
Dont hide your feelings around her, but dont feel like you need to pour out your heart to her either, mystery is good. if you know what I mean. Just be honest I guess... be yourself is my advice. You sounded like you met some other possible frineds that night and so maybe it wont work with linda but someone else even more suited? Who knows.
There is a song by this guy I really like called Mason Jennings and one line was "Honey I am sure that you've been loved before that plenty of men have held high places in your eyes, Jealousy, its got no use for me the past is beautiful like the darkness betweent he fireflies"
now I am rambling on and on off to bed for this cat
Yeah man, I'm aware of the Swedishness of the Hotnights...I've got a bootleg of them playing in Umea University, and they speak Swedish in between songs (I probably find this fact a lot cooler than you would!)
Plus she told you that you need to learn to love yourself first right? It may have been honestly what she saw and felt and told you that to help your chances, or may have been a finesse way of telling you she doesnt reciprocate your feelings.
Dont read too much into encountering them, just like the saying goes "just because your paranoid doesnt mean they arent watching you."
so does its also true just because it seems like more than a coincidence, doesnt mean it wasnt just that totally random.
Dont hide your feelings around her, but dont feel like you need to pour out your heart to her either, mystery is good. if you know what I mean. Just be honest I guess... be yourself is my advice. You sounded like you met some other possible frineds that night and so maybe it wont work with linda but someone else even more suited? Who knows.
There is a song by this guy I really like called Mason Jennings and one line was "Honey I am sure that you've been loved before that plenty of men have held high places in your eyes, Jealousy, its got no use for me the past is beautiful like the darkness betweent he fireflies"
now I am rambling on and on off to bed for this cat