Sunday Mar 25, 2012

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Confused confused so fucking confused. I dont get why he said he loved me so much and so often for nearly two years, then cheats, then i try work things out but he doesnt want to know about it, doesnt think we should be together, we arent meant to be..how can you just decide that, how do you even know these things, it fucks me off he isnt willing to try work things out, give ourselves sometime and see what happens. no nonononon, for him, its done, its old news.its over. And i dont know whether to hold on and fight or let go and be fucking heart broken for an awful period of time, which would probably happen either way.
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gunn45:
There are SO MANY people of character out there....what if you waste two more years of your precious time with this person who doesn't know what he has and doesn't think your feelings and emotions are worth anything - (obviously not worth as much as his own pleasure, anyway)....and meanwhile your perfect love is out there, and you miss him....wouldn't that be a shame. Please Please Please realize right now that he will only cause you more pain in the future - you can take that to the bank - and the pain is inevitable, so why not get it over with right now, and go find that guy who truly loves you, and will spend his entire life making yours the best it can possibly be.

They are out there....and one of them is looking for you, too.
78walk:
If you were to succeed in convincing this guy to get back together, at this point, it wouldn't matter what you said verbally. The underlying message would be "I'm willing to put up with a lifetime of abuse".

There is no love that's worth causing yourself to have a miserable life. Feelings are something we can't always help, but we can choose to put our rational self in charge of behavior and decision-making.

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