stiles:
Nah. There can come a point when work completely takes over your life, leaving you physically exhausted, burned out, stressed out or some combination of all of that. If temporary, this can be ridden out. If it looks structural and permanent, it's time to do what you can to change the structure and start looking for another gig if that does not work out. .
shando:
Not whining at all. It's a part of your life, you're living it, and it's weighing on your mind. I agree with Stiles up there.
electric:
easy way to remember this--if the article referred to starts with a a vowel use "an." easy.