also, you should use my idea for a set as i will probably never again have a chance to use it. crazy cat lady. seriously. get a bunch of cats and like a rifle and some crazy dress from the 60's or 70's and find someone with a wooden porch and a rocking chair, hahah.
it took me a long time of trial and error to find this guy. i actually turned him down at first. but then i heard how much he liked me from his friends and gave him another chance. i'm so happy i did.
dont worry. the right guy will come along at some point. it just takes time.
its just refreshing to finally have a guy who treats me right without even having to ask.