Well, I guess I'll let you in on a few things. Last October my "husband" kissed a coworker at a party. For 3 weeks or so, they were all over each other at work. They cut it off before they did the "deed", so to speak. I found out about the whole thing after they had cut it off. Since I found out about it, it has been made clear to my husband that I am not cool with them being buddy buddy and hanging out at work.
Well, apparently he can't stay away from her, and has continued to seek her out at work. This pisses me off. This makes me not trust him. This makes me want to leave.
Tonight, we did more talking on our "date" and I found out, that yet AGAIN, they were hanging out and shit at work. I am so hurt, and so angry and feel like an idiot.
And the shitty part is, that on Tuesday, he came home saying he was all ready to get gung-ho, and really give it a shot, and he had told his skank that they weren't gonna hang out anymore - and I so much want that to be true. But he has said this a few times before, and then continued to hang out with her. So how can I believe him?
So, there it is in a nutshell, at this moment anyway. We have a lot of regular married people issues, and things I have to work on - but I feel that if he can't leave that relationship behind, then we can't move forward and deal with the other shit we need to deal with.
And so......this is me tonight (well, technically this morning).....
And I was so consumed with all my CRAP that I forgot to say; That sucks that they fired you!!!!!! I hope you find a new job soon, let me know how it goes.
I hope you find a new job soon, let me know how it goes. 
Well, I guess I'll let you in on a few things. Last October my "husband" kissed a coworker at a party. For 3 weeks or so, they were all over each other at work. They cut it off before they did the "deed", so to speak. I found out about the whole thing after they had cut it off. Since I found out about it, it has been made clear to my husband that I am not cool with them being buddy buddy and hanging out at work.
Well, apparently he can't stay away from her, and has continued to seek her out at work. This pisses me off. This makes me not trust him. This makes me want to leave.
Tonight, we did more talking on our "date" and I found out, that yet AGAIN, they were hanging out and shit at work. I am so hurt, and so angry and feel like an idiot.
And the shitty part is, that on Tuesday, he came home saying he was all ready to get gung-ho, and really give it a shot, and he had told his skank that they weren't gonna hang out anymore - and I so much want that to be true. But he has said this a few times before, and then continued to hang out with her. So how can I believe him?
So, there it is in a nutshell, at this moment anyway. We have a lot of regular married people issues, and things I have to work on - but I feel that if he can't leave that relationship behind, then we can't move forward and deal with the other shit we need to deal with.
And so......this is me tonight (well, technically this morning).....
[Edited on Jul 15, 2004 2:50AM]