Hey, no problem. People like things kept private for a reason so I figured I'd alert you to the matter. Nonetheless, welcome to the site. I've been around since 2003 so if you need anything feel free to ask!
One important bit of advice, since most newbies don't get this right away.
Convention at SG is to reply to comments in THE COMMENTER'S blog, not in your own. That way, their message count (the middle number at the top right of the screen) goes up by one, and they know you've responded. They they reply back here, and you see your message count go up.
If you respond to me in YOUR OWN journal area, I'll never know unless I just happen to come back for a second look.
It's not the same as lots of other web communities, but you'll get used to it -- we all do.
Oh wow you are beautiful you will do great as an SG. You got that girl next door look to you which a lot of guys just eat up, especially me. Oh im sorry I got carried away.. WELCOME